Fledge said:
I understood you perfectly the first time. However, as I said, every time I have heard someone ask this kind of a question, he has neglected something very important. What you have neglected is the fact that killing is an action. If I so desire, I can choose to take no action at all, which would mean that I would not be killing anyone. Perhaps you meant a different scenario, but at the moment the only thing I have to go on is your very loose, and (in my opinion) poorly worded question. Would you be so kind as to clarify?
Unbelievable. Even after specifically bolding the portion that negates your option to not act, you still missed the point. The question said that you HAD TO choose between one or the other. As in, you MUST choose between killing one group, or killing the other group. So if you HAVE TO choose from those two, how can you choose not to act? You can't choose not to act, because you HAVE TO choose between the two options given. My question was not poorly written, you just are having a very hard time comprehending it (Not because it's confusing of difficult, it's rather simple and direct in fact).
Best definition for love that I ever heard comes from the Bible. First Corinthians 13. You've probably read it, or are at least familiar with it. If not, you might find it worth reading. That is the definition of love that I would tend to use, difficult though it may be.
Assumption number 1. "there is no such thing as a moral absolute."
Conclusion: "Morality is what I decide it to be."
Conclusion: "Other people will see morality as what they decide it to be."
The results of these conclusions?
Result: "Good is that which helps me get (insert whatever you want/like/desire/wish for here)."
Result: "Bad is that which produced negative results for me."
Is that supposed to be a logical syllogism? Boy I hope not.
When this is applied in real life, there is no way to stop people from deciding that other people really don't matter, because "number 1" is the only person who counts. I have yet to run across a society (if you have, please tell me about it) that could function smoothly when nobody gave ground to anybody else. Relationships only function properly when there is mutual respect, because mutual respect means that both sides are willing to let the other person have his way sometimes.
Of course there's nothing stopping you from deciding people don't matter. People decide this all the time. What WOULD stop them? A lightning bolt from the sky? It's a simple, obvious fact that people make their own morality. Unless you're claiming that everyone's morals are identical.
You said you've attempted to prove your argument, and in all honesty I respect that. I'm glad that you're trying to be reasonable with your position, that's definitely a good thing. However, again being honest, you haven't done a good job of it. You made what looked like an attempt at a logical syllogism, however it was not clear and the steps did not follow logically. A good logical syllogism follows very precisely, yours was very vague and that's the last thing you want in a logical argument. So if you could make it more specific, and logically demonstrate your conclusions from the premises, then you'd have a lot better of an argument.
I've noticed, but I'm not trying to say that moral absolutes would have stopped them. There are always people who do not follow the laws, so the fact that people tend to be self-seeking does nothing to disprove the idea of moral absolutes. All it does is show that some people don't believe in/follow the moral absolutes that I try to follow.
Okay, then it's established that whether or not there are moral absolutes, people will all have their own conception of morality.
So the question is, how are you to know for certain who is right? How can you tell Hitler he's wrong, when he is willing to say with just as much certainty that you are wrong? If you're going to appeal to the Bible, then you're going to have to prove that God exists, then you're going to have to prove that the Bible is inspired by him and is completely true, at least where morality is concerned.
Okay, I should have been more clear. My apologies for the confusion. It is not inherently wrong to do things that benefit yourself. Its when the things that benefit you cause harm to other people that moral issues arise. If you're hungry, and you have a pizza, go ahead and eat some. If somebody else wants some, and you say "no", you're probably being unkind.
Okay, I see what you meant now. Thanks for clarifying.
Rape and murder of Jews fit into the society that Hitler had constructed for Nazi Germany, because their society taught that Jews weren't really human. They were sub-human, and existed solely for the benefit of the "master race". Since the society was such that rape and murder (of Jews) was considered acceptable (or even good), clearly, rape and murder (of Jews) fit into that society.
Okay, again I see what you meant. I was coming from the view that Jews are a part of that society, even if everyone else doesn't think so, and thus when an entire population has lost their rights, freedoms, safety, etc. then that society is not functioning well, because society is supposed to secure those things for everyone. But yeah, I see how from the position of all the non-Jews, society was great, since they were basically ridding themselves of a percieved burden, for lack of a better word.
I'll try again, and if you still don't understand what I'm trying to say, I'll try again. We can tell Hitler that what he is doing is wrong. We can go to war with him to make that point. We can kick his butt in that war, throw him out of power, and have him tried for "crimes against humanity" (before you ask, I know that he committed suicide in his bunker shortly before the Russians finished taking Berlin). However, unless there is some kind of an absolute, not necessarily an entire system, but something that is morally absolute, we have no moral obligation/duty/right to do so. We can scream at him until we're blue in the face, we can plead with him until our pants wear through at the knees, we can reason with him until we die of old age, but unless there are moral absolutes, we cannot tell him that what he is doing is wrong (because that would imply some kind of moral standard that transcends human reason, which would tend to indicate that it is an absolute).
I agree. Thanks, once again

, for clarifying.
My question is - why are you so eager to be able to tell people they are absolutely wrong? I feel that human beings have an innate tendency to want to demonize things and people. When you look down on someone, you build yourself up, and that naturally makes you feel better, makes you feel superior and secure. There are many ways we do this, from simply making fun of the smelly kid in class behind his back, to completely belittling an enemy in war so that we don't see them as human beings, but as nothing more than opponents.
Morality is another way we do this. A murder trial, for example, shouldn't be about trying to damn and judge people, saying they've violated some transcendent moral code and thus they are wretched and we are all enlightened. It should be nothing more than recognizing this person is inhibitive to the collective desires of this society, and thus we are forced to take measures to ensure the realization of our desired ends.
In both cases, the problem is addressed and all is well, however when we don't assume our morality to be objectively and absolutely "right", we don't have to bother with all the condescension and demonizing that comes with thinking we are somehow privy to the absolute truth and good of the universe. We are not. We are all just different people, who like and dislike different things, and thus our views of right and wrong (Good and bad for my desires) are all different.
Granted. My mistake, and I'll try to avoid making such errors in the future. I can't promise anything though, so I'm counting on you to catch me when I screw up next time. However, the point still remains that there were people in power in Germany at that time who thought that there society was good. If everybody had been appalled by it the way people usually are today, then it would have fallen apart very quickly. However, it held together until it was torn apart my force of arms, so clearly some people liked it the way it was. And again, without a moral standard that transcends mankind, we cannot say that their society was bad without admitting that it is purely our own personal opinion. And clearly, the Nazis didn't really care too much about other people's opinions, or they wouldn't have done what they did.
Oh hey don't worry: if there's one thing I'm good at, it's pointing out people's mistakes in a debate

(Please always do the same for me as well)
You've mentioned more than once now the fact that without absolutes, we can't 'absolutely' condemn people's actions. I understand that this is a consequence of moral subjectivism, however, I am not sure whether or not you're using this as an argument for moral absolutes, or if you're just pointing it out. Could you let me know if "Without absolutes nobody is absolutely wrong" is just an observation by you, or if it's somehow an argument against moral subjectivism?
Then please reiterate your argument, because I appear to have completely missed the point.
You said that with moral subjectivism there is not such thing as wrong. I see now that you meant "absolutely wrong", but I thought you just meant that a moral subjectivist can never say anything at all is wrong. This is not true. Like I said before, morality describes that which is conducive or inhibitive to our desires. Murder is only wrong cause we desire the safety of innocent people. Theft is only wrong because we desire the property rights of people. Lying is wrong because we desire honesty, truth, and we do not like deception. Giving money to the poor is good because we desire the happiness of other people, and we can empathize with others and their suffering. So, things can very well be wrong to a moral subjectivist, however no, one would not appeal to some transcendent morality.
Before you disagree, think about this. Just because food preferences are subjective, and there is no transcendent, absolute "Tasty", doesn't mean I can't say that what someone likes is gross, does it? I know that it's just my parent's preference to eat sour kraut, but I think it's nasty. And I tell them "How can you eat that ****, it's so nasty!". However, I know that my opinion isn't an absolute, and their tastes are as valid as mine, no matter how strongly I disagree with them.
I hope I've cleared it up, sorry if I was vague or misleading.
Please define the term "society" because the only way I can explain our totally opposed views would be if we are using different interpretations of the same word.
Like I said before:
A society is defined by mutual interests, cooperations, common goods and goals, etc.
To elaborate a bit, when man is in a state of nature (before society) he is in threat of death, in threat of theft, he cannot defend his life or his property beyond his inherent ability to do so, he does not have access to anything he can't make himself, and there are plenty of other restrictions humans have when they live autonomously. So, society is created to provide all that we don't have without society. So we all come together and agree to provide safety to one another, to respect and protect property rights, to respect and protect various freedoms, we work together to provide different goods and services for eachother, and basically we all just cooperate to secure happiness for as many people as possible.