Jesus made "honor your father and mother" a matter of financially supporting them in their old age (Matthew 15:3-6 and Mark 7:10-13). The Pharisees were using religious traditions to avoid their responsibility, which contradicted God's command. Jesus underscores the practical and moral implications of honoring parents, showing that true obedience to God's law involves tangible actions, including financial support when needed. This is not to say that "honor" doesn't include abject obedience, but certainly that it is broader than obedience.Shouldn't that depend on what "honor" means, there? I honor my mother and father many ways, and I attempt to never dishonor them. But I don't, for example, agree with them on several things, and both of them had foibles that I hardly even respect, but I try to avoid talking about whatever might be dishonorable to them, and only if it serves some purpose besides scorn, do I reference an attitude or pov they had that I don't agree with.
So, let's say, Mom was one who, among other things, thought one of the duties of a Christian was to "figure out God's will for your life, and to pursue it to fulfill it." The only place, off the top of my head, where I see a statement in Scripture that could be taken to mean that is Eph 5:17, "Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is." In most the situations I have seen, even attempting it is damaging and stressful, and borders on divination which is worse than superstition. I can't begin to know how many people have taken a wrong turn in life because they thought that was where the Lord was leading them. I'm one of them.
I don't respect that, but I honor her, and believe her to be sincere in it, no matter how misguided. Further, I admit I could be wrong about it.
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