- Feb 18, 2009
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hey everyone, I have a question about marriage and the Bible. So my boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year, we've been wanting to be married for awhile now, but we haven't the money for all that a wedding ceremony and reception requires. I have the ring for him, and he is saving up the money for my ring, and we are wondering what is the most Biblical and pleasing to God way to be married, but without all the cost of food, catering, and dresses, etc. at least for now because in the future we'd love to have a late ceremony to celebrate. Is simply signing a marriage license and saying "I do" before the judge of peace/or a pastor and some family witnesses Biblical? Or should there be more. I'd love to be able to at least say my vows in our church if possible, as well as take care of the legal stuff all at once, even without all the normal wedding hullaballoo (though I love the thought of it) money is just too tight nowadays and saving up to have one takes forever. I love Trevor with all my heart, as does he me and we made the commitment to one another, but we are tempted from time to time, to desire to show our love in ways only made for marriage. I am still a virgin, but sometimes I am tempted greatly, because we have been together awhile and its getting hard to contain desires and such.:s We just want to do this right by God. I know in Romans Paul says marriage is good, especially in cases like ours and he encourages it, as well as Jesus in the gospels. The Bible really does not state that there should be a formal ceremony, but does say that God recognizes the law of the land, therefore making legality of marriage pretty much needed. So what are everyone's thoughts? trey and I are going to consult our church elders as well, and pray on it. Thanks a million!
Casey
(wanting to be married)
Casey
(wanting to be married)