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Is it wierd

JesusFreak78

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I don't know. It's not that easy all the time. But let me tell you this. I am a very shy person, and that makes it more easy to be alone and at the same time it is VERY HARD to see other people together. God is helping me through it.

 
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JesusFreak78 said:
I don't know. It's not that easy all the time. But let me tell you this. I am a very shy person, and that makes it more easy to be alone and at the same time it is VERY HARD to see other people together. God is helping me through it.

I know what you mean I feel the same way a lot. You are content being by yourself and at the same time you would like to be a part of what other people have.
 
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Yeah about the girl and the coffee. Make sure that the girl is not the reason for your happiness, make sure its JESUS.

Take it slow and dont give your heart to her. If you find giving your heart to her it means that Jesus does not have it. Make sure Jesus is the one with your heart always.

If you find your self giving your heart to her take a time out from her with looking to fishy or that your our like some kind of holy man.

Again make sure that Jesus holds your heart always and its ok to get close to people and let them see what is happening in your heart (like that girl).

I forgot what else you wrote. Let me go check.

Hector ;)
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Well just an update on my situation with this girl, ive tried several times to set up a time to meet and im feeling too much restriction so i put the ball in her court to see if she makes an attempt to set something up, it sucks to do this but i said to myself that it wasnt worth me pushing to make something happen so ive decided to give up on it for now. i will probably see her at bible study tomorrow night so i will have to see what she says but for now im done. the worst part is i dont know her well enough to know whether or not id like to date her on a regular basis and i cant ever stop thinking about being with her.
 
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72_Chev_Truck said:
Well just an update on my situation with this girl, ive tried several times to set up a time to meet and im feeling too much restriction so i put the ball in her court to see if she makes an attempt to set something up, it sucks to do this but i said to myself that it wasnt worth me pushing to make something happen so ive decided to give up on it for now. i will probably see her at bible study tomorrow night so i will have to see what she says but for now im done. the worst part is i dont know her well enough to know whether or not id like to date her on a regular basis and i cant ever stop thinking about being with her.

Well what happens will occur in the Lord's time and if she and you are meant for more than just friendship that is up to the Lord as well. Just lean on God and to help guide and support you no matter what occurs.
 
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