Is it possible for God to restore a marriage when you don't live together, your husband says he doesn't love you anymore and he has a friendship with another lady? I still love him deeply. I am devastated that he doesn't love me and refuses to try to reconcile.
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Is it possible.
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I agree anything is possible through God.But He doesn't force His will on us.Your husband would have to choose God .In reading your other post it sounds as if he has his back completely turned.And has for many years.Before you weren't living together.As I recall he has been abusive, he is a porn addict, and had multiple affairs before you asked for a separation to work on those issues ? Since then he has continued it seems more of the same?(is involved with another woman presently?) And now he wants a divorce?Again as long as your husband is not choosing God (we have free will) repenting asking for Gods help and forgiveness He wont force it upon him.You can pray for God to work in him maybe give him a thump on the head but your husband has to choose to listen instead of ignore and he may never do that.
And nobody here can tell you if your husband will or will not ever turn around.But from a human perspective considering how long your husband has been unfaithful to you in more than one way over these years(10 years ?) as well as it seems he does not consider his 7 children I wouldn't put any trust in him that he will ever change.Other than praying for him stop wasting your energy on him put all of it into taking care of your self and your children .Save your dignity and stop telling your husband you love him or begging him to reconsider and start building and preparing for a life without him.
And nobody here can tell you if your husband will or will not ever turn around.But from a human perspective considering how long your husband has been unfaithful to you in more than one way over these years(10 years ?) as well as it seems he does not consider his 7 children I wouldn't put any trust in him that he will ever change.Other than praying for him stop wasting your energy on him put all of it into taking care of your self and your children .Save your dignity and stop telling your husband you love him or begging him to reconsider and start building and preparing for a life without him.
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