Is it possible?

[favoredbyGod]

Is it possible for a person to have romantic feelings for two different potential mates?

One of the person's I just met a few months ago and the other person I have loved and known for a few years.
I am confused about what to do.

 

[peanutbutter12]

Of course it's natural. Feelings don't equal love, love is a decision you make, not how you feel. It's quite normal to have feelings about more than one person, the question is, how do you deal with them?

 

[eatenbylocusts]

Of course you can have feelings for more than one person at a time. I've never believed that there is one and only one soul mate for everyone. Having feelings for the new person doesn't mean you need to leave your current relationship-too bad some married couples don't get this.

Sometimes someone will start looking real good when there are problems with the relationship. Sometimes you recognize that your current SO does not have certain qualities that you see in someone else.

Temptations will always be around. Does this person make you realize that your current relationship has serious flaws that would indicate you shouldn't get married?