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is it just me?

HarborOrange

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Ahhh, it happens. People change, people move on, people are people. That's why the Scriptures define us as a "sea" or the "waters." We churn around like the ocean, and we toss about. So, it's no surprise that we all change and forget so frequently. It's what mankind is the best at.

So take no offense to it. It hurts, yes, and it's always sad, but it's just the way of life. You do, however, always find at least one person that hangs onto you always though. There are some that remain close, and they are truly a blessing, so cherish them when you find them.

Also, remember, some of the fault of said fading friendships most likely also rests on your shoulders. If either of you, for even a second, starts to not take the relationship as seriously as when it first was at its strongest, then that was the beginning of the end. If your friend, or you, at all started to drift even for a second, then the other friend reciprocates the action because they feel slightly awkward or a little distant. So, it's a vicious cycle that continues to repeat right on down the line until things entirely fade out.
 
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loverules

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I saw this comment and was extremely offended lol. However, HarborOrange explained it well.

You two blame eachother all the time :p and my life has been full of "friends" leaving me or putting me down, so i just don't get attached to people i guess but i try to build the friendships up as time goes on x
 
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PaxThroughX

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You two blame eachother all the time :p and my life has been full of "friends" leaving me or putting me down, so i just don't get attached to people i guess but i try to build the friendships up as time goes on x

Like right now XD
 
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PaxThroughX

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ok, it's sad when i have to reread the convo to remember the original topic... Especially when im the one who created it :p lol x

Lol, I tried to stay on topic, but nate just had to ruin things again. Oh you get blessings for that XD
 
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loverules

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Lol, I tried to stay on topic, but nate just had to ruin things again. Oh you get blessings for that XD

ok so you blame nate and nate blames you, so...who's fault is it again? and you went off topic jake :p x
 
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PaxThroughX

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ok so you blame nate and nate blames you, so...who's fault is it again? and you went off topic jake :p x

I attempted not to, but oh well. Yes, its all nate's fault. He screwed up my thread lol remeber?
 
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