Is it good when the girl's mom likes you?

[Latino]

I like this girl... dont know if she likes me back or not.. kinda get mixed vibes.. however, it seems like her mother really likes me, and would like me to date her daughter!!!

Is this a good or bad thing?? I know non-christian girls RARELY go for guys who their moms like! But does the same apply to Christian girls?

 

[Bubba1301]

I'd say be careful. Personally I would not go on a date like that, but that's just me. I would rather be dating the girl first and then discover that mom likes me than to have it the other way around.

 

[Latino]

thanks for the reply bubba... in what way do you mean i should be careful though?

 

[Bubba1301]

Sometimes mom may be trying to play match maker without her daughter's knowledge. Also, dating a non-Christian can really test you in your faith. Mom may think you're a good match, but her daughter may not feel the same way.... that's all I mean by careful.

 

[Beautiful Fireball]

For me personally, I don't know how I would feel. My mom has chosen some really interesting guys for me, some ok and others not so much.

I would rather have it the other way around. I would want my mom to like the guy that I am interested, but just because she likes the guy doesn't automatically mean that I will go out with him, does that make sense?

 

[TySJI]

I like this girl... dont know if she likes me back or not.. kinda get mixed vibes.. however, it seems like her mother really likes me, and would like me to date her daughter!!!

Is this a good or bad thing??

Depends if you can get some free cooking out of mom .

 

[simmeringabsolute]

I like this girl... dont know if she likes me back or not.. kinda get mixed vibes.. however, it seems like her mother really likes me, and would like me to date her daughter!!!

Is this a good or bad thing?? I know non-christian girls RARELY go for guys who their moms like! But does the same apply to Christian girls?

Women are insane.



no exceptions

 

[Macrina]

It's not a bad thing that her mom likes you. In my book, it's a good thing. The one possible negative I could see arising from the situation is that if the woman isn't interested in dating you, or isn't sure, she may feel pressured by her mom -- and that has repercussions on her relationship with you.

But other than that, unless the mom likes you so much that she's asking you out, I think it's a good thing.

 

[Blank123]

depends.. i don't think i've ever developed an interest in a guy just because my mom happened to be impressed with him but she has been impressed by guys i have been interested in. so IMHO it really depends on what her feelings are for you to begin with.


i know that pobably doesn't help you, but since when are women supposed to understood anyways?

 

[TySJI]

i know that pobably doesn't help you, but since when are women supposed to understood anyways?

I'll add this much: only after women can figure themselves out, is it worth men even trying

 

[Macrina]

I should clarify what I meant when I said "it's a good thing." I meant it's good in that if she's interested in you and you start dating, you already have jumped one of the hurdles, which is getting her mom to like you. I don't think it's likely to change how she feels about you -- but I don't think it's likely to hurt, either. And if you do start dating, you're off to a good start with the Mom.

 

[Niels]

I'm almost always liked their moms, and I'm still single at 31, so I wouldn't put much stock in it. What's important is that the girl likes you. If she's not interested, then it doesn't matter what her mom thinks.

 

[JPPT1974]

But hopefully that the mom will
Relinquish control of liking you as a friend
And nothing more than that
What really matters is if your girl likes you first and foremost!