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Is it good to try to change spouses?

Hetta

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Ana the Ist.....what a great example of building trust and security into a marriage. Way to go!

I agree.

Thank you Ana. You have some awesome insights into marriage.
 
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mutual righteousness through headship (example) and response wife of noble character's response of a submissive (pure, reverent, gentle, peaceable lifestyle) Go God! for giving us the answers that work!
 
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Sometimes I think its my job to tell them what they are doing wrong and what they should be doing to be right.

And to quote Dr. Phil... "How's that working for you?"
 
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Mostly good posts here. One note is most worthy --change self first (note Matt. 7:1-5). It always seems better to be careful how one speaks of the failure or weakness in the other spouse. Over 50 years of marriage has somewhat taught me a need to be more careful, lest I offend and discourage my wife rather than encourage and help. I love her much and surely do not want to trouble her.
 
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Sometimes I think its my job to tell them what they are doing wrong and what they should be doing to be right.

Show them alternative ways of doing things, by all means. But don't try to change their nature. I fell in love with my husband for who he is. If I change his nature, he won't be the man I fell in love with anymore.
 
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