elsbeth said:
I didn't MISS the point, I'm disagreeing with the point.
Ya, ya you did. I'm not talking about people that believe sexuality should be reserved for marriage, which I've already pointed out, and which you seemed to miss.
I'm talking about people like Ted Haggard. During the day he's a righteous preacher, condemning homosexuality from the pulpit. In secret, he's doing drugs and having an ongoing sexual relationship with a male prostitute. But once he gets caught, he doesn't want to do it any more and goes into anti-homo therapy. Maybe that's because half the fun of it was the danger of getting caught.
elsbeth said:
I don't think most Christians fit the OP at all.
I don't know what the percentage is, but this idea would help to explain hypocritical sexual behavior among Christians.
Everyone knows that hypocritical sexual behavior exists in every part of the Christian community because enough people get caught to shed light on it. What no one knows for sure is how much of that community is involved.
The thing is, no one is going to tell you that they are secretly pursuing sexual "deviance". So how do you, or how does anyone, know what that percentage might be? Furthermore, how do you know what it is not?
A certain amount of people get caught, so we know the percentage is higher than zero, but that's about all we know. However if this fetishism is popular the number could be a lot higher.