is it bad 2 comit suacid bcus i wont 2

[Jesus606Is606Lord]

help me plz

 

[DividedWeFall]

Well first off, yes, becuase you will die and it's a sin. Anyway why don't you tell us your problems exactly and we can help you more.

 

[Jesus606Is606Lord]

ever since i was born i have been teased and mi brother wonts 2 kill me its not fun living a life like this and the only friends u can get r 1s that back stab u and teas u 2

 

[SpiritualGirl]

Hello Jesus606is606lord

Many of us have been down this path so you should get plently of help here.

I once was suicidal, I had "friends" who backstabbed, and was bullied since I was born as well, by my cousins, in pre-school, primary school and still today *but it has quietened down a fair bit*

The spiritual fruit for suffering is hope. You must not give up on your life, suicide is not the answer.

No matter how bad life seems now, there will be a light at the end of the tunnel.

I put my faith in the lord and with my faith life has been going uphill, I have made true friends and life seems much more meaningful.

We all have our cross to bare, but suicide is no way out.

I am a bit tired right now so I might post more later. tell us a bit more about yourself if your comfortable, that way we will be able to help you.

I will also suggest this site www.newhopenow.org to talk to an online counsellor.


G'night for now


SpiritualGirl

 

[DividedWeFall]

You almost sound a bit like me when i was a tad younger. Well my first little bit of advice is, Don't give up. Honestly things aren't as bad as they seem, your in a storm at the moment and in the words of Dean Martin "The sunshine always follows the rain", i'm sure god has something equally cool if not cooler to say, but at the moment i;m listening to a Deno song. OKay seriously, first off with your brother, i doubt he really wan'ts to kill you. I'm an elder brother myself and i suppose my brothers sometimes think that of me. If he is doing something you don't like have you tried just telling him to stop? If that doesn't work is there truly no one else you can talk to about it, a teacher, a priest even ringing the kids helpline might be of assistance.

Secondly. how are have your friends back stabbed you, maybe you need new friends, could you perhaps try meeting new people, people who would accept you for you. Maybe your friends don't realize they are doing things to hurt you, i know it sounds really lame but talking can often help, i know it's hard to do it but you will feel so much better afterwards and it almost always helps.

 

[Jesus606Is606Lord]

u onasly dont no me brother and its were i live its like a 1 man town u no every 1 and if they dont like u nothings going 2 cange the only way it going 2 get better is by suacide or moving

 

[SpiritualGirl]

u onasly dont no me brother and its were i live its like a 1 man town u no every 1 and if they dont like u nothings going 2 cange the only way it going 2 get better is by suacide or moving

Jesus-is-lord,

You are 17 so you won't be in school for much longer, maybe focus on the studys (although it may be hard with depression weighing you down) once you complete school you can move out into a different town.

Please do not consider suicide an option, God can help you through this time if you let him.

Do you think you might be able to tell us a bit more about your brother, is he older or younger than you? have you tried to repair the relationship between you and him?

SpiritualGirl

 

[Jesus606Is606Lord]

hes older than me and i couldent talk 2 him if i wonted 2

 

[DividedWeFall]

u onasly dont no me brother and its were i live its like a 1 man town u no every 1 and if they dont like u nothings going 2 cange the only way it going 2 get better is by suacide or moving

Let me tell you a story abut myself, I live in a small town like yourself, everyone knows everyone etc, etc. Now, back when i was 16 i decided one night with a friend of mine that i should take me mums car for a drive while she was out of town. Unlicensed and high on adrenaline i ran into some guys who had their p plates whilst on the road, long story short i ended up (intentionally,if irrationally) using my car to ram his (this is a very very very short version of what happened) Anyway after that it seemed like the whole town wanted my blood albeit just the kids, i felt like my only way out was to move or die. I decided to not take the easy way out and stick with it. I weathered the storms of their anger at me, i stood my ground and even though i did something bad, god helped me though it. Today 3 years on i am what i like to think a respected and well liked member of my community helping others when i can.




Now you see, don't say nothing will change, because though i did something very wrong god helped me and now I'm quite happy, just have faith, find a hobby, get a cause. Is there a volunteer organization you could join, maybe the Rural Fire Service, or the State Emergency Service, anything? But remember, it may feel like eveyone hates you, but they don't.

 

[DividedWeFall]

hes older than me and i couldent talk 2 him if i wonted 2

Why can't you talk to him?

 

[SpiritualGirl]

Commiting Suicide will only let the bullys win.

It will hurt God so much if you chose to take your life, open up to him talk to him and trust him.

God has helped many others through their depression and he is willing to help you.

SpiritualGirl

 

[Jesus606Is606Lord]

i dont no i dont like 2 go near him when ever i do i have a fight with him and its not me who calles it

 

[DividedWeFall]

i dont no i dont like 2 go near him when ever i do i have a fight with him and its not me who calles it

Is there something in particular he is fighting with you over? How do you deal with it when he trys to start something, do you retaliate or turn the other check or something else?

 

[Jesus606Is606Lord]

i dont no y he hates me but when he fights with me he doesnt drop it untill he nows he has 1

 

[DividedWeFall]

i dont no y he hates me but when he fights with me he doesnt drop it untill he nows he has 1

So how do you deal with this, what actions do you take when he tries to fight you, do you fihgt back with him at first, is tehre somethign you'll say to him?

 

[Jesus606Is606Lord]

yea but iam not going in2 it sry

 

[DividedWeFall]

yea but iam not going in2 it sry

Well that does make it harder to help you and give you same advice, if you feel more comfortable you can message me privately in trust.

Just try and remember, Suicide is never the answer in any instance. You have to battle on, if you think about it there will be something to get you through your dark times and know that, at the least, people on this web site will try to help you with any problems you might have - are there any other areas of your life that are getting you down?

 

[Everglaze]

As much as suicide feels like the best solution to escape all problems, it really isn't. It hurts God and the problem isn't what you leave behind, but what you'll face afterwards. I personally think that you should talk to someone you may feel comfortable talking to and see what kind of advice that person can offer you. It's rather difficult when everyone around you betrays your trust and you are left vulnerable. There's only hurt. But, still...pray and don't lose hope. There's always a solution, and it's not suicide.

 

[mylittlelambs]

Killing yourself is a Sin. Its seems kinda sad that sometimes we have to live so we dont hurt the people who love us. Does not seem fair. I dont want to kill myself. But I do really want this pain to go away and I want to go live my life with God and never have the fear of being left again. I know how you feel I think.

 

[Everglaze]

Yeah, sometimes I don't understand why it hurts other people to begin with. I mean parents I can understand for obvious reasons, but other people? I don't understand. They don't express their "love" or "appreciation" while you're still alive, yet it's when you die that they jerk a "fake" tear or something? What is that? It feels like an insult...in fact, it feels like when you're alive, it doesn't make a difference whether you're dead or not either. I've seen it happen tons of times and it annoys me.

Anyway, it doesn't matter who loves you cause in the end, it's God that loves you. To take suicide as your route is the wrong way. It shouldn't be that you won't commit suicide because of the "loved ones," it's that you shouldn't commit suicide because of GOD. He's the one who loves you the most. His love is REAL.