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Is God self-centered or something?

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Hello everybody, it is I TheGreatBongChicken. No I'm not a heretic, read the post not just the title. The following is actually something I wrote on my website/blog a year or so ago, I really feel that this is a good place to post it. Please only comment if you read the whole thing... I hope you find it interesting.


Man, it is so cold today that my head hurt on the way to my last class. Walking across Campus for less than a minute and literally… my head really hurt… like it was being crushed. And my loungs hurt from the cold air so much that even a half hour into the class it still hurt to breath. But being inside… is so much better than being outside, insulation is a wonderfull idea, and so is heat. The only reason I would go outside other than to learn, would be to bring others inside to protect them from the cold. There is spiritual application there.. some of you can see it.

Now, about the title… don’t worry, I’m not a heretic. I just figured that title would catch some peoples eye(or maybe even both of their eyes.) I think many of us often think these types of thoughts, and then we get scared of offending God so we put them away… and avoid them so we won’t have to answer the question. An agnostic told me once, “I’m not going to bow down and worship a God who is so self-centered that He created an entire race of people just to have them surround Him for eternity and worship Him. And He has us go around to reach other people just so He will have more people to surround Him for eternity telling Him how great He is… and that is our purpose? We are supposed to be happy about that? I don’t think so. When I see this ‘God’ I will give Him a piece of my mind!!”

Well, I don’t think He needs a piece of this agnostics mind because He made his mind. I’m sure He has a blue-print somewhere and maybe even a box of spare parts incase the agnostic loses his mind or something. But what he said, he does have a point, and at the time I didn’t know how to answer him and simply avoided the question and replaced it with common Christian Cliche’s like “God is Love”, “Christianity isn’t a religion it’s a relationship”… you know, those things we say, but really forget what they mean. They’re so cool when we first hear them and we run around telling our non-Christian friends and make shirts and write songs and think we’re smart. Maybe we are, I don’t know. But this agnostic made me examine all of those things and line these things up with the Bible. It was interesting what I found.

First off, I had to decide that regardless, I will worship God because He is worthy, and He did send His son for me. But did He only send His son so that I could worship Him for ever? Doesn’t that sound “Self-Centered”? It’s scary to ask those kind of questions because we feel like we are disrespecting God, so when they come to mind we seem to push them away and pretend we didn’t think them. Want to know a little secret? God already knows that we thought them, and He can handle us asking Him. It’s also foolish to wait untill we see Him face to face to “give Him a piece of our mind”. But hey, at least this agnostic was honest.

A worship leader once said in the midst of leading worship, “This is why we were created… we were created for worship. What a privilage!!” I was like “Yeah, that’s true.” but then I thought “Wait… isn’t that awful self-centered of God?” And then I said to myself “Bad James!! Shutup and just worship Him! He is worthy!!” But about two months ago I really just decided to ask God this question, and I found myself in the book of Genesis where He first created us. Why did He do it? What did He say? I could post the whole first two chapters of Genesis up here, but that would make this entry even longer than it already is. Read it yourself if you want here, but I’ll just summarise very briefly. After He had created all of the animals and the earth itself, He said “Let us create man in our own image, in our likeness.” When He talked to Adam, He never said “Worship me, cause I’m so great!” He simply gave Him dominion over the entire earth. And you know, Adam didn’t have a religion, He really had a relationship with God. He walked with God in the garden… isn’t that crazy? Walking with God? Like you walk with a friend?

You know, I think sometimes in Christianity the impression is given that when God decided to make us His thought process was something like this: “:idea: Man, I’m really awesome… in fact, I’m so awesome that I need to make a bunch of people to surround me forever to tell me how awesome I am:bow: !! In fact, I’ll make it so that when people refer to me as “him” they have to capitalize the H!!! Ha ha!! Man I’m good… Oh yeah, who’s the man? Oh excuse me, Who’s the GOD!!:cool: ” Well biblically, that’s not quite how it happened. When you think of the fact that “God is Love”, and that “Love is selfless”, and “considers others above/before itself”, that does not make sense… He would not do it for that reason. So why did He create us?

Were we really created to Worship God and go recruit a bunch of other people to Worship Him? No, we were created to know God. You see, God is so Good, and so Loving that He wanted someone to give His Love(Or rather, Himself) to. I don’t know if anyone noticed this before, but Adam did not worship God until after He sinned. Before He sinned, it was all relationship, no ceremonies… nothing between us and God. The Religious parts of Judaism and Christianity are all the result of Sin. Now God is worthy of Worship, and because of that reason alone we should Worship Him. Get that straight first. But that is not why He created us, He created us to give Himself to us… to bless us in a way we can not comprehend.

If you want to think of a scenerio that we as Humans could understand, think of it this way. Love needs an object of affection, or it is not Love. God is Love, so we are His object of affection. He wants to know and have relationship with each and every one of us… not a religious system where we recruit converts to recruit more converts to recruit… etc. Worship is a response to the fact that, even after we turned our back on Him, He gave Himself completely(literally) just so He could be with us!! You see, He is not just Love, He is also Holy. Because He is Holy He can not dwell with sin, He can not have a true relationship with a sinfull fallen being. So what did He do? He gave Himself completely to redeem us and bring us back to the condition that He created us in origionally… His image, His likeness.

You know, Evangelism is not a religious tradition either. And it is not simply a command. It is simply the natural response to becoming more like Him, we want to reach out to others and give ourselfs to others. We don’t want to get points with God for winning Him converts, we want to give to others what has been given to us… if we are really becoming Christ-like, that will become our hearts desire.

You see, everything God asks us to do now… worship, evangelism. It’s all just the result of His origional desire to be with us. The more He restores us to His image, the more we realize how amazing He is and want to worship Him. The more we become loving people as He is a Loving God, the less self-centered we become and the more we want to share His Love with others. He really is a Love beyond all reason… like that song that we have been singing lately, it’s really the heart of God. I want to give God praise in everything I do, my praise goes out to Him, because He’s worth it, He gave more than I could ever give back. He is not self-centered, if anything His Love is centered on us. Each and every one of us.

Don’t misunderstand God. He did create us so we could tell Him how great He is forever, and He didn’t die for us so He wouldn’t have to make another race to do that for Him. He created us to be with us forever and give Himself to us, and He redeemed us because we fell and He cares about us too much not to pick us back up.

So no Mr. Agnostic, God is not self-centered.:)

-James’

I hope it made you think a little! It's not supposed to be an attack on anybody, just a little bit of what goes on in my mind.
 
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He cares too much, unless he causes a world wide flood and kills everyone except for Noah.

I find this very archaic in thinking. I don't think it is us who need to stand on our head to get God's attention. It's God trying to get ours. It's God's love to just let us be loved, that generates that love to others and back to God. I don't think that we are to sit at God's feet for eternity, saying, "You're the man, Jesus."

My suspicions are that We become one with God, a part of God, not a servant of.

Jesus came as a servant to man, and washed the feet of others.
 
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He cares too much, unless he causes a world wide flood and kills everyone except for Noah.

I find this very archaic in thinking. I don't think it is us who need to stand on our head to get God's attention. It's God trying to get ours. It's God's love to just let us be loved, that generates that love to others and back to God. I don't think that we are to sit at God's feet for eternity, saying, "You're the man, Jesus."

My suspicions are that We become one with God, a part of God, not a servant of.

Jesus came as a servant to man, and washed the feet of others.
Verry true, He came as a servant.

My point was just that originally in the book of Genesis man was not created to worship God, and God and Adam had a real relationship. I believe that God is not only love, but He is Holy and just and had to do something about sin... either way, answers to all of your objections can be found in my original post.

But, in no way am I trying to water down scripture, or paint God how I want Him to be. I fully acknowledge and accept how seriously God takes sin, which is why I'm glad He allowed His entire wrath to be satisfied on Himself.

Believe me, I believe our sole purpose is to be known by and to know God. I believe religion is the result of Adam's sin, and the old covenant was for a time and now the new covenant. For God to be truly Holy and truly Love at the same time must be hard, and I don't think I, or anyone can understand everything but I explained the best I could.

If it's not satisfactory, I'm sorry.
 
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There's god and then there's god. The god in image of humans is self centered. (i.e: the one that takes the form of a human sitting on a throne in some place with clouds for floors). The god that is of itself isn't. (i.e.: the god that religions don't bother explaining)
 
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Well, I didn't say anything about clouds for floors... although the Bible does mention a throne. But I don't believe God was made in the image of humans, I believe we were made in His image and likeness and have fallen... oh well, you know.

-James'
 
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Well, I didn't say anything about clouds for floors... although the Bible does mention a throne. But I don't believe God was made in the image of humans, I believe we were made in His image and likeness and have fallen... oh well, you know.
Does God have emotions? If so, why?
 
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Great Bong Chicken!

I for one think that is an awesome post, but I also think Beanie boy has something going with the becoming one with God thing.

I'm so excited I can't bring my thoughts together cohesively.

Everything on this earth is a shadow of what heaven will be like. Therefore Marriage (and yes this is relevant) is a shadow of a heavenly thing, but what heavenly thing?

When the Bible talks about marriage it discusses the belief that the man and woman become one flesh. Now it's obvious they don't combine bodies like Siamese twins and walk around joined at the hip. The Bible is talking about a more serious, and deeper connection, that is the combination of souls that takes place after sexual intimacy.

What if heaven is not only God giving himself to us (as a husband gives himself to his wife) but us giving ourselves to him (as a wife gives herself to her husband) to become one in Spirit with him. We won't become gods, but we will be privy to his thoughts and actions like never before because we will have become unified with him as Jesus is unified with him. Could oneness with God actually be portrayed by the earthly shadow of marriage, and marital intimacy?

There is alot more to the doctrine of heaven than meets the eye.
 
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Verry true, He came as a servant.

My point was just that originally in the book of Genesis man was not created to worship God, and God and Adam had a real relationship. I believe that God is not only love, but He is Holy and just and had to do something about sin... either way, answers to all of your objections can be found in my original post.

But, in no way am I trying to water down scripture, or paint God how I want Him to be. I fully acknowledge and accept how seriously God takes sin, which is why I'm glad He allowed His entire wrath to be satisfied on Himself.

Believe me, I believe our sole purpose is to be known by and to know God. I believe religion is the result of Adam's sin, and the old covenant was for a time and now the new covenant. For God to be truly Holy and truly Love at the same time must be hard, and I don't think I, or anyone can understand everything but I explained the best I could.

If it's not satisfactory, I'm sorry.

On the contrary, quite deep. I one time was trying to describe my idea of God, and after a lot of thought, I said that God is that emotion that we call love. When someone loves you, and you love them, you feel like time stops, like you are complete, and I think God is literally love.

Then man tries to complicate it through religion. God won't listen unless you stand on one foot and bow and say these exact words...
We are taught that God wants to sit on a throne and have us all sing Kumbya

It's an odd image to portray. If I told you, "I want to have kids so that they will love me," I sound like I'm having kids for the wrong reason. You have kids to give them love, not take it.

So why would someone think of God like that? Yet, most do. Ask them about hell, and they will tell you about the most grotesque situations, pain, flesh being torn or eaten, the smell, the darkness, the fear.

Ask them about heaven, and you get the equivalent of a waiting room playing Soft Rock. ugh.
 
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Great Bong Chicken!

I for one think that is an awesome post, but I also think Beanie boy has something going with the becoming one with God thing.

I'm so excited I can't bring my thoughts together cohesively.

Everything on this earth is a shadow of what heaven will be like. Therefore Marriage (and yes this is relevant) is a shadow of a heavenly thing, but what heavenly thing?

When the Bible talks about marriage it discusses the belief that the man and woman become one flesh. Now it's obvious they don't combine bodies like Siamese twins and walk around joined at the hip. The Bible is talking about a more serious, and deeper connection, that is the combination of souls that takes place after sexual intimacy.

What if heaven is not only God giving himself to us (as a husband gives himself to his wife) but us giving ourselves to him (as a wife gives herself to her husband) to become one in Spirit with him. We won't become gods, but we will be privy to his thoughts and actions like never before because we will have become unified with him as Jesus is unified with him. Could oneness with God actually be portrayed by the earthly shadow of marriage, and marital intimacy?

There is alot more to the doctrine of heaven than meets the eye.

This is very much what I was getting at. In Marriage, you act as a team, yet have individual personalities. However, you act as one - care for the other as yourself, comfort the other as yourself. You work as one, and yet, you are separate.

Jesus said that one should love their neighbor as themselves. If we were to all love each other in the same way a mate loves his/her mate, or friend, the world would be a much better place. That is how I imagine heaven - one in which we all act and live as one, just as John Lennon sang.
 
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On the contrary, quite deep. I one time was trying to describe my idea of God, and after a lot of thought, I said that God is that emotion that we call love. When someone loves you, and you love them, you feel like time stops, like you are complete, and I think God is literally love.

Then man tries to complicate it through religion. God won't listen unless you stand on one foot and bow and say these exact words...
We are taught that God wants to sit on a throne and have us all sing Kumbya

It's an odd image to portray. If I told you, "I want to have kids so that they will love me," I sound like I'm having kids for the wrong reason. You have kids to give them love, not take it.

So why would someone think of God like that? Yet, most do. Ask them about hell, and they will tell you about the most grotesque situations, pain, flesh being torn or eaten, the smell, the darkness, the fear.

Ask them about heaven, and you get the equivalent of a waiting room playing Soft Rock. ugh.

Nice post. You're fast becoming one of my favourite posters around here :)

Even if God did exist, then i'm as sure in my mind as i possibly could be that Christians are completely and utterly way off the mark about what God is like. I'm not saying that i think you are correct, but at least you sound more plausible then anything i've ever read in scripture!
 
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On the contrary, quite deep. I one time was trying to describe my idea of God, and after a lot of thought, I said that God is that emotion that we call love. When someone loves you, and you love them, you feel like time stops, like you are complete, and I think God is literally love.

Then man tries to complicate it through religion. God won't listen unless you stand on one foot and bow and say these exact words...
We are taught that God wants to sit on a throne and have us all sing Kumbya

It's an odd image to portray. If I told you, "I want to have kids so that they will love me," I sound like I'm having kids for the wrong reason. You have kids to give them love, not take it.

So why would someone think of God like that? Yet, most do. Ask them about hell, and they will tell you about the most grotesque situations, pain, flesh being torn or eaten, the smell, the darkness, the fear.

Ask them about heaven, and you get the equivalent of a waiting room playing Soft Rock. ugh.
:thumbsup:
 
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I read How to Quit Religion without quitting God, and in the book, one of the interesting, and controversial statements that he makes, is that when Christ died for the sins of the world, all of the sins of the world were taken away, so that all of mankind eventually comes back to God.

When you look at it like that, it actually is Good News. If you look at it from the perspective that you have to believe in God and Jesus and repent, etc., then the majority of the world is going to hell, and I looks like Jesus and God blew it.

He also said that churches often look like an upside down funnel, and people go in, and praise God, like some ego maniac. The truth is, it should be more like a funnel from God, showering down on all of us.

And as I thought of this, I had the image of thousands of presents floating down around me, and thought of how we are blessed endlessly every day.

It is God who is trying to get our attention, not us who need to get his. We often talk to God, but rarely do we listen.
 
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Great Bong Chicken!

I for one think that is an awesome post, but I also think Beanie boy has something going with the becoming one with God thing.

I'm so excited I can't bring my thoughts together cohesively.

Everything on this earth is a shadow of what heaven will be like. Therefore Marriage (and yes this is relevant) is a shadow of a heavenly thing, but what heavenly thing?

When the Bible talks about marriage it discusses the belief that the man and woman become one flesh. Now it's obvious they don't combine bodies like Siamese twins and walk around joined at the hip. The Bible is talking about a more serious, and deeper connection, that is the combination of souls that takes place after sexual intimacy.

What if heaven is not only God giving himself to us (as a husband gives himself to his wife) but us giving ourselves to him (as a wife gives herself to her husband) to become one in Spirit with him. We won't become gods, but we will be privy to his thoughts and actions like never before because we will have become unified with him as Jesus is unified with him. Could oneness with God actually be portrayed by the earthly shadow of marriage, and marital intimacy?

There is alot more to the doctrine of heaven than meets the eye.
Well, we are called the bride of Christ for a reason I guess. And to address another, yes I believe God feels... I believe God in Himself to be an unembodied mind.

God created man for his own Glory. Of course he is self centered. What do you plan to do about it?

Foolish Noob... you must not have read the post? :|

I think there's a god but the way x-tians portray him is rather human-centric.

Well... all I can say is, don't let Christians stop you from seeing Christ.:)

I thought there was a GA section for a reason... so that i don't have to read this deluded nonsense. Seriously, this shouldn't be here.

Well... as far as I know, nobody forced you to read it. You do have a will of your own... unless you're calvinist;)

-James'
 
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No problem Stan.

Just to make something clear...

I have my own beliefs, but I completely respect each and every one of you guys and your beliefs. Beanieboy, you make some great points and you really seem to take this whole subject seriously and I appreciate that. We don't necesarily agree but I appreciate people who can have a real conversation. And lots of others who post here that I don't necessarily agree with, I respect you guys and hope that I don't come across as a rude bigot.

-James'
 
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Buddhism teaches that when someone claims to be seeking truth, you should listen to him. If he claims to have found it, to run far away.

It's absurd to think that man can understand the complexity of God, and I only see someone as a rude bigot when they refuse to listen, or don't respond when their "truth" is clearly disproven, and continue to claim it as truth.

This is more like open discussion. If we all agreed, it would be rather dull.
 
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