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drfeelgood said:You liar. You accuse me. Don't even go there. You've thrown scripture after scripture at me, out of context and everything, trying to trap me and failed. If you're such a terrible sinner, why have you been coming after me. Where is this so-called "compassion" now?
You live a lie. Now we know who the hypocrite is.
I don't pretend to be anything. I live what I preach. So that doesn't work either.
You're throwing stones from inside your glass house.
E-beth said:*MOD HAT ON*
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Keep it on topic, don't get personal, and remember that we are all supposed to be putting on Christ here.
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I'm guilty. I apologize. I hear what you are saying.E-beth said:*MOD HAT ON*
OK This thread is in danger of being closed. Keep the flames out, or warnings will fly.
Keep it on topic, don't get personal, and remember that we are all supposed to be putting on Christ here.
Thank you
Tears said:I was wondering if somebody could please tell me if divorce is a sin, if the marriage was done in exceptional circumstances (ie one of the partners was suffering an illness that affected their judgement)?
I don't want to go against God, but I truly believe now that what I was suffering at the time coerced me into marriage to the wrong person at the wrong time.
Does God want me to stay in this marriage? Does God want me set free with a fresh start? How do I know what God wants? I've been married for 2 years now.
Thank you for any advice.
I would have recommended separation for those couples, but not divorce. Two wrongs, ten wrongs, one hundred wrongs do not ever make a right.msjones21 said:I think some people need to read the book Broken and Battered: A Way Out for the Abused Woman. It is a Christian book and it shows you that the Scriptures can be misinterpreted, especially by people who are always looking to nitpick and make abused women feel like they didn't do enough to make their marriage work. One of the women in the book, whose story is told from her perspective, was abused by her husband (who was also a pastor) and she divorced him and remarried later in life. The other woman was almost killed by her husband and her church turned a blind eye.
Any time somebody condemns a cause, practice, or belief, he or she should offer a better one in its place. Such it is with separation--which the Bible speaks no ill will of--and divorce--which Christ made it quite clear is sinful.How nauseating it is that the church condemns the woman when she divorces an abusive husband! The church takes pity on the abuser while the woman is scorned for being the one who wasn't "good enough" to make her marriage work. And to whoever it was that said that it is better to be killed and go home to the Lord than to violate God's commands needs to get a bit deeper into the Scriptures. I would rather be safe than be a Pharisee.
LOLdrfeelgood said:Anyways, ya, you got me. I listen to 2 songs from the minister of satan.There's several other ways I sin, but I've never professed to be perfect.
I still don't see, though, how it detracts from the validity of my posts?I still just reiterate the facts, without judging anyone. It's really not my place to do so.
Tears said:I'm a new Christian.
I was wondering if somebody could please tell me if divorce is a sin, if the marriage was done in exceptional circumstances (ie one of the partners was suffering an illness that affected their judgement)?
I don't want to go against God, but I truly believe now that what I was suffering at the time coerced me into marriage to the wrong person at the wrong time.
Does God want me to stay in this marriage? Does God want me set free with a fresh start? How do I know what God wants? I've been married for 2 years now.
Thank you for any advice.
drfeelgood said:You know what? I've calmed down since last night.
I've come to realize something. FOC lived up to my every expectation. He pushed and pushed and pushed, looking for an opening to flaunt to the masses, just as I said he would. How sad that it was me that provided him the opportunity.
I didn't count on that kind of response from a simple quote. My bad. I've decided to take it out so I don't have to face that type of abuse from any other "forgiving" or "compassionate" brothers or sisters. It's not worth it. It's easier to delete it rather than explain why it's there to all those of like mind.
It's been intriguing...
Abstain from every appearance of evil.
(1Th 5:22)
Abstain from all appearance of evil.
(1Th 5:22)
Keep from every form of evil.
(1Th 5:22)
HoosierCanuck said:Okay...two more cents...
Also, because of the Scriptures, I choose to remain single and I think it would take something about as obvious and outrageous as God Himself speaking down from Heaven telling me to marry again before I would make that mistake.
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