James,
You make a very good point. I believe that effectual call is a much better wording, but it would ruin our TULIP acronym wouldn't it?? LOL
Orthodoxy,
Perhaps you are confusing the outward call with the inward call? Everyone is called to repent. That is the outward call. That is our job as christians to boldly go and preach the Gospel to ALL. But only those with the "inward" or effectual cal are going to spiritually discern what they hear, and respond favorably. Some will hear the outward call and respond, but theirs is the faith that does not last. This is a reponse based on feelings, emotion, fear, even peer pressure. But not a response to an inward call. We only know if our response to the call is inward when it produces the fruit. We must constantly test our faith, and if we have fruit then we may REST in the knowledge that God has chosen us and will perfect our faith to the end. (but that's getting off the subject)
To many men, the idea of God choosing some and passing over others is extremely unfair. We cannot know the reasons for this, but the proof is in the bible. I don't like it, but I must accept it, for it is the truth.
Paul anticipated this very reaction "it's UNFAIR". He addresses it in Romans 9. I'll start with verse 18
18 "Therefore He has mercy on whom He wills, and whom He will He hardens. 19 You will say to me then, "Why does He still find fault? For who has resisted His Will? 20 But indeed, O man, who are you to reply against God? Will the thing formed say to him who formed it, Why have you made me like this? 21 Does not the potter have power over the clay, from the same lump to make one vessel for honor and another for dishonor? 22 What if God, wanting to show His wrath and make His power know, endured with much longsuffering the vesses of wrath prepared for destruction, and that He might made know the riches of His glory on the vessels of mercy, which He had prepared beforehand for glory, even us whom he called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles?"
I believe that about sums it up. We don't know why God chooses to operate this way. But he does. It is evident that not all men are created equal in God's eyes. We have to accept God's ways, even if we cannot understand them...