The notion that an irreducibly complex organ could evolve flies in the face of the basic concept of evolution, that is, natural selection of chance variations. natural selction would discard the various components as useless unless they were assembled in a workable form.
If an organ could have evolved in gradual steps, it is not irreducibly complex. For that would be contadictory.
I think we should disentangle three questions:
1. Is System X irreducibly complex?
2. Could System X have evolved?
3. Did System X actually evolve?
What you are saying is that if we get an affirmative answer for 2, that automatically implies a negative answer for 1. I think that's a touch fallacious. The original definition of IC by Behe is:
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A single system composed of several well-matched, interacting parts that contribute to the basic function of the system, wherein the removal of any one of the parts causes the system to effectively cease functioning. (Darwin's Black Box, 39)
http://www.iscid.org/encyclopedia/Irreducible_Complexity
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You may answer that our definition of IC is different today, but I'd say that just shows that Behe should have thought a little harder before coming up with such a half-baked idea.

If you feel that using this definition is manifestly dishonest or something do voice out.
Anyhow. Notice that this definition of IC doesn't actually say anything about whether or not a system could have evolved. Indeed it
says nothing of the origins of a system. All that I need, to determine whether or not a system is IC, is to examine how it operates in the present, and to pull off components in the present. Could have evolved, might not have.
Also note that the interest of ID proponents isn't actually in IC
per se, which is why they've been hassling about the definitions and changing them around. ID proponents really care about question 2. Answering question 1 is just an intermediate step in answering "no" to question 2. Likewise, anti-creationists aren't really concerned about question 1 either. Working biologists cooped up in their labs never quite care about whether their systems are IC. (If the mousetrap is irreducibly complex, what comfort is that for the mouse?) Again, the anti-creationists are more concerned to showing that the answer to question 2 is "yes".
Irreducibly complex or not, every time the evolutionists show that a particular system could have evolved, the ID case grows just that bit weaker.