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[Everyday Sunday]

Being an introvert, I have learned that I am a thinker and have a tough time coming out of my shell. Do you feel this way?

 

[zxcv]

It's pretty much the same for me.

 

[friend of]

Focus on how to express yourself. It's not so much about getting "out" of yourself its more like being responsive to how you feel only in an open way.

 

[Kevin Snow]

Shells are for turtles but I'm a fluffy introvert. I keep getting hurt and misunderstood. My introvertness is based on the fact that it takes time to get to know me. That time seems to be longer than what most people have time for these days.

 

[Everyday Sunday]

I think Christ has given me a mission in this life to think on His goodness and grace

 

[Kevin Snow]

I think Christ has given me a mission in this life to think on His goodness and grace

Well we all should do that yes. We are all commissioned by God to preach the good news and that is both with our life and with speaking it to the people, so that by any means they might be turned from darkness and into life.

 

[Job3315]

Being an introvert, I have learned that I am a thinker and have a tough time coming out of my shell. Do you feel this way?

Yes. Have you heard of DISC Personality test? It helped me a lot. They have a short free introductory test that might help you as well.
https://discpersonalitytesting.com/

Wish you the best! ❤️

 

[MehGuy]

The problem is, many of my interests and thoughts are offensive towards others.. so yeah.. besides Internet forums its best to keep my mouth shut.

 

[alsughasoughaiuyfygh]

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[MehGuy]

I'm an introvert because social interactions really do exhaust me easily. With my disability, it's like being an animal performing in a circus act to entertain a whole bunch of people who expect you to perform that same tiresome dance you don't want to do.

Depends on the avenue. You don't seem like too much of an introvert here.

I actually love sharing and discussing ideas with people. Although I hate having a lot of friends and it is hard for me to feel close to others.

 

[alsughasoughaiuyfygh]

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[MehGuy]

CF Singles is one of the few places where I can actually be myself without others being hard on me all the time. Of course I'm going to capitalize on it.

Alright should have read your first post more closely.

You're an introvert (in most circumstances) not by choice? Right?

 

[Citanul]

You're an introvert (in most circumstances) not by choice? Right?

People aren't introverts by choice. Introversion and extroversion are about how people react to social interaction - extroverts are energised by it, while introverts find too much exhausting, and as far as I know it's something that can't be changed. What can be changed is behaviour, so an introvert can become more outgoing, but they'd still be an introvert.

 

[kittysbecute]

Being an introvert, I have learned that I am a thinker and have a tough time coming out of my shell. Do you feel this way?

I am an introvert, and shy. I don't really try to "come out of a shell". But I am able to be more talkative with people when I have more energy or if I know them. If I know them I am also less likely to be drained of energy as fast.

 

[ImAllLikeOkWaitWat]

I'd assume if an introvert isn't very good at socializing it's because of a lack of experience socializing, not because they are incapable of it. I think during my school years I wanted to be an extrovert really bad, when someone told me I was shy I would do everything I could to prove them wrong. I look at introversion as a good thing, in a world in which the time you spend with people in person slowly decreasing being an introvert is a good thing because you aren't going to try to fight against what society is becoming. Which is well antisocial. Being an extrovert definitely had more value before technology took over.

 

[Citanul]

I'd assume if an introvert isn't very good at socializing it's because of a lack of experience socializing, not because they are incapable of it.

It's not that introverts are incapable of socialising, but by their very nature they find too much socialising exhausting and need time to themselves to recharge. As a result they can often prefer not to socialise, leading to that lack of experience.