Inner beauty?

[Nico]

However, I would point out that you cannot marry any of your friends correct? I mean if I told you to cast lots with all your male friends and whoever wins you marry. You probably would not be amused. There has to be more to the soul "jive" that allows for your (marriage) relationship. I am not saying it is not important...actually, it is part of the bare minimum...but it in itself cannot be everything. Part of the extra (I believe) is the attraction (both inner and outer).

yes, this is very true. i met this guy a little while ago, who when i first met him i did not think he was attractive. we talked for a little while and there was definite soul jive going on. we parted ways. we live in different states, but have been emailing. and i've learned more about him and his soul keeps becoming more and more beautiful. now he's definitely on my mind, but it might be easy for me to fantasize about something with him since i don't see him all the time. and i was thinking about how there are so many things about him that i find attractive, but i'm curious as to how i will react on the physical attraction level next time i see him. i certainly wouldn' want to marry someone who i didn't find sexy and attractive in my eyes, b/c otherwise it'd just be a friendship.

 

[JPPT1974]

Inner beauty is much more attractive than outside beauty because that inner beauty is from your heart and soul.