The UMC takes pride in its tolerance of ideas, but I've noticed that the only thing that is not tolerated is someone who steps out too far on faith.
I suppose that this is true with some people. But you certainly are not hearing me say anything even close to that. For instance, you also say...
It doesn't matter if a parishoner believes in the Old Earth or the Young Earth, as long as they believe in Jesus Christ and that he is both God and man. If they need to believe in inerrancy to do that, then let them. If they need infallability to do that, then let them.
And this is exactly what I do do. If you were to sit my the pew in my congregation, or even participate in a Bible study where I am more willing to get into and discuss disagreements in interpretations, you won't find me critical of anyone for believing in a literal 6 24-hour day creation. From the pulpit (where one does not have time to go into details) the most I say is that it doesn't matter whether one is speaking from an evolutionary standpoint or from a literalistic one, the message of the Bible is still that God is sovereign over all and ultimate Creator whether one believes he spoke the world into being or caused it to evolve over time. We still have the same message about God's relation to the world whichever way you arrive at it.
But I would suggest to you Bryan that you've posted more than one definition of "myth". Which is it that you are using:
an idea or story that is believed by many people but that is not true
or
a usually traditional story of ostensibly historical events that serves to unfold part of the world view of a people or explain a practice, belief, or natural phenomenon
I am using the second understanding, most certainly NOT the first. I divorce completely from the idea of myth an ability to determine truth simply because the story is packaged in the form of a myth. Which does not mean that we cannot attempt to determine historical truth or scientific facts by some other means (namely historical or scientific research), but we must do so by these other means, and recall that a mythological vessel for communicating knowledge is not intending to communicate either history or science, but to explain something else.
For instance, "a stitch in time saves nine". Really? Has anyone done the math. My experience is that one stitch by itself usually isn't enough to fix anything, but two or three can save you 50 or 60, or maybe even having to throw the whole thing away. But you know what happens when I point this out to people? They tell me that I missed the point. That they weren't being literal in suggesting that it was some sort of math equation. Rather that the idea was to fix something early when the problem is small, rather than waiting for it to become a bigger one later.
So, I want to suggest that the above saying is true, even though it isn't factual, because it teaches us a lesson that truly needs to be applied in our lives. But it is poor math that rarely works out to actually have a 1:9 correspondence. But, then again, that isn't the point, any more than I think 6 24-hour days is the point of Genesis 1.
IMO, it is a pastor's job to help people increase their faith and not to teach science. You shouldn't demand that people accept the Young Earth (as the Baptists do) and you shouldn't tell people to not believe in it either (as the Methodists and public school teachers do).
Right. Though, if asked, one has to be prepared to give an answer to those who ask about what we believe (see 1 Peter 3:15), a lots of people are asking these sorts of questions both within and outside of the church.
Trying to make friends with the secular world by denying the supernormal aspects of God never works, and it only weakens the church.
No one is suggesting this. I don't know why you even bring it up.
If God were simply a part of nature, then he would be less than God. So, it follows that any god we speak must be both outside of and above nature. Hence, by definition, any god referenced (whether known as God or not) must be supra-natural or one isn't referencing god. No one is going down this road unless you've got some sort of strawman you're introducing to the discussion that I don't know about.