Please look at both of my statements, and I think that you will see that I have addressed your concerns. Certainly, I do not believe that followers of Jesus should just give their money to anyone, and I think it is horrible that so many modern televangelists exploit well-meaning people in order to generate income. My argument all along has been that we need to exercise discernment. But, while it is important that we are careful about who we trust with our money, we should be all the more careful about who we trust with our spiritual growth. So, if a person honestly feels that the local church body that she has chosen to be a part of cannot be trusted with something as insignificant as a tithe, that person should ask herself why she feels she can trust that body with her spiritual growth.
Conversely, the point is that if you do trust your local church and you do believe that your church is participating in God's redemptive work, then as a follower of Christ you will want to support that not only with your finances, but with your prayers, your words, your time, and your actions.
One can give to God in a number of ways. When we share what we have with one another out of love for God, we are giving to God. When we choose to spend time loving one another, we are giving to God. When we place our tithe in the offering plate, we are giving to God. When we offer financial support to those who are fighting poverty and injustice, we are giving to God. When we give our time to fight injustice and oppression, we are giving to God. Please, don't think that I am saying that money is the only way to give to God. Just the other day, I was speaking to a friend of mine encouraging him to consider whether he should quit one of his jobs in order to have more time to devote to caring for his wife and children. I believe that even a choice such as this and the sacrifice that ultimately goes along with it (less money for his family and less money to give to the church) is a gift to God.
For what it is worth, I would like to add a bit of personal testimony to this discussion. The past year has been one of most financially difficult years of my life. Except for a few months of temp work, I have been unemployed for about 12 months now. My wife and I both have racked up huge debts from before our marriage, and my wife's income would barely be enough to take care of one person, let alone two people with a huge debt load. During this time, we felt that God was leading us to stop our cycle of debt and to begin to make whatever efforts were possible to begin to pay back our debts. So, in short, using credit cards to pay our monthly expenses was not an option for us, and failing to pay minimum balances was certainly not an option. And, here, I have to admit that it was quite tempting to me to stop tithing so that we could use the money to pay back debt. For my wife, this was not an option, and I am grateful that I allowed her to take the lead in this.
Our decision about what we do with our money at times like these, I think reveals what we believe about God. When I considered not tithing as an option to deal with our financial struggles, I was essentially saying that I did not trust God to take care of our needs and that I did not believe Jesus when He said, "Seek first the Kingdom of God and all these things will be given to you." Fortunately for us, my wife did trust God, and I believe that we have both been made stronger for it.
First, we have gotten to see that God can accomplish with our finances what appears to be impossible on paper. I don't know how it is that we have not only been able to pay minimum balances, but we have been able to make fairly sizable payments towards our debt, all while taking care of our physical needs. All I can say is that this is something that has happened on God's power rather than our own.
Second, we have gotten to experience what it is to be a part of God's people. One of the reasons that we have been able to get by is because of the love of people that we go to church with. In small things, people shared what they had with us, knowing that we are struggling and knowing that we will cheerfully do the same for others when our times are better.
Thirs, and perhaps most importantly, we have learned to judge what is really important. We have had to make decisions about how to spend our money over the past several months. We have become aware of how much money we waste on things that give only momentary pleasure. In response, we have cut back on needless things like entertainment, convenience eating (i.e., fast food and dining out), and so forth. And, we have learned that these things, which we had previously taken for granted, have no impact whatsoever on our contentment or our happiness.
I am convinced that these blessings are a direct result of choosing to give to God more than we could comfortably give, and I am convinced that having experienced times like these, I have grown to better understand what it is to trust God and these lessons will lead us to greater generosity i the future.