Joe..
I am a once saved not always saved person. I have been accused a multitude of times of being into "works"...
I read my word and it is very very clear.... God says: IF you do this, THEN I will do that..
His love for all humankind is there, but His covenant blessings are CONDITIONAL upon obedience. Obedience means: IF you do this, I will do that.
His word says we will be known by the commandments we keep. How do you keep commandments without being obedient and following law?
Sometimes I wish I wasn't of this belief... I know many who say: "I'm saved by grace, it doesn't matter what I do." GREASY GRACE is what we call that! There have been times in my Christian walk that I chose to do things unbecoming of a Christian... at these times, as much as it pains me, I would say I was not saved. Thank God, I was able to repent and get back in His good grace.
This opens the discussion of "what sin crosses the line?"... and if sin is sin is sin in the eyes of the Lord, I don't know.
All I know is that knowing I need to be obedient to the Lord keeps me in peace and security that I am OK.
My ex is a greasy grace person... no matter how he cheats, steals, adulterates, kills (he killed my precious dog in a fit of rage by breaking its neck)...he says because he was once saved he is always saved. I am sorry, but someone who snubs his nose at God and treats people (his own family) like crud, has a long way to go in the eyes of the Lord. He was commiting adultery, and going to court for trying to kill me, brought his latest lover with him to court, while wearing his WWJD bracelet, saying "I am OK. I am saved by grace"...
for his sake....it would be WONDERFUL to say Once saved always saved... but I believe God is more discerning than that.