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CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.
I'm such a hypocrite!
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memoriesbymichelle
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lol!!! I am definitly not rail thin, nor blond!!
hmm hmm hm, I'm just sitting around waiting for him to call hmm hm hmm oh I forgot
I've gotta wait 2 more days 
lol!!!
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Interesting dilemma, You can't fake instant physical attraction but you can keep a friendship and see what happens. May I be so bold as to ask now that you have experienced both ends of the spectrum - being turned down due to your size and not be attracted to someone due to their size has that made you rethink the men point of view that prefer smaller women?
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My most recent ex was a humungous man...like 400 lbs...and even though he was 6'7, he was still huge.
Like you, I LIKE big guys. But this was beyond big...it was life-threatening and unhealthy. A little fat on any person is not unhealthy, if they keep a healthy lifestyle. But my ex couldn't go for a hike, he couldn't be on his feet a lot, he took more pills in a day than I do in a year, and had a host of other health issues, all attributed to his weight.
So...if you're turned off by a severely overweight person, I don't think it's unreasonable or shallow, because it goes way beyond just how they look. It alludes to their lifestyle, their thinking, their habits. My ex could have lived a much healthier way, but he didn't...he had nothing to blame for his condition but himself. And THAT turned me off.
Like you, I LIKE big guys. But this was beyond big...it was life-threatening and unhealthy. A little fat on any person is not unhealthy, if they keep a healthy lifestyle. But my ex couldn't go for a hike, he couldn't be on his feet a lot, he took more pills in a day than I do in a year, and had a host of other health issues, all attributed to his weight.
So...if you're turned off by a severely overweight person, I don't think it's unreasonable or shallow, because it goes way beyond just how they look. It alludes to their lifestyle, their thinking, their habits. My ex could have lived a much healthier way, but he didn't...he had nothing to blame for his condition but himself. And THAT turned me off.
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