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I'm OK and I'm On My Way!

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I'm OK and I'm On My Way!

How many times have you heard the expression, "Nobody's perfect"? We use and hear this expression almost every day. But it's true—I'm not perfect, you're not perfect, nobody's perfect. Hopefully though, we are all getting better, on our way to perfection. The important thing to remember is that even though we're not yet perfect we're still OK. Just because we haven't yet arrived doesn't mean that we're not on our way.

It's true that most of us still have a long way to go. I used to get discouraged about how far I had to go, and it seemed like I was reminded of it every day, even every hour. I carried a constant sense of failure, a feeling that I just was not what I needed to be, that I was not doing good enough, that I should try harder—and yet when I did try harder, I only failed again.

I have now adopted a new attitude: "I'm not where I need to be, but thank God I am not where I used to be; I'm OK, and I'm on my way!" I now know with all my heart that God is not angry with me just because I have not yet arrived. He is pleased that I am pressing on, staying on the path. If you and I will just "keep on keeping on," God will be pleased with our progress.

Keep walking the walk by taking one step at a time. This is an important thing to remember. It is true that we have to keep pressing on, but thank God we don't have to hate and reject ourselves while we are trying to get to our destination.

If I invited you to take a walk, you would think I was crazy if I became angry after the first few steps because we had not yet arrived at our destination. We can understand ordinary things like this, and yet we have a difficult time understanding that God expects it to take some time for us to grow spiritually.

We don't think there is something wrong with one-year old children because they cannot walk perfectly. They fall down frequently, but we pick them up, love them, bandage them if necessary, and keep working with them. Surely our awesome God can do even more for us than we do for our children.

This process is always difficult. Growing and learning is never easy. But the changes make us a better person. We begin to think differently, then we begin to talk differently, and finally we begin to act differently. This is a process that develops in stages, and we must always remember that while it is taking place we can have the attitude, "I'm OK, and I'm on my way!"

Enjoy yourself while you are changing. Enjoy where you are on the way to where you are going. Enjoy the journey! Don't waste all of your "now time" trying to rush into the future. Remember, tomorrow will have troubles of its own (Matthew 6:34).

Today you may be wrestling with a bad temper and thinking if you could just get freedom in that area, everything would be all right. The thing is, you may have forgotten that God will then reveal something else that needs to be dealt with, and you will be back in the same frame of mind again, thinking, "If only I didn't have this problem, I could be happy." We must learn to look at these things in a new way.

We can be free to believe that we are indeed OK and on our way—not perfected yet, but pressing on. We can be free to enjoy life, enjoy God, and enjoy ourselves.
 

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Thank you for this posts, I needed to read that. I firmly believe that I had to go through what I went through to become the person I am today...If I put my trust and faith in the Lord on a daily basis he will help me through any situation....God bless...:)
 
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Great Post!!! I have come to believe that God is more concerned with the journey than where we end up. I had a 6 figure salary and a great career, yet I was cold, callus, and basiclly uncaring. I became addicted to pain killers after a surgery and I lost everything Job/Career/Friends. It was the friends that hurt the most. They just turned their back on me and considered me somehow unclean. I then realized I was just like them. I am now fighting my way back, and somehow my wife stuck with me (THANK GOD), but I now make sure to be kind, understanding, compasionate. I am going to get back, and this time I will comfort those that are uncomfortable as best that I can.

For what has a man gained if he gets the whole world and loses his eternal soul.
 
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"I'm not where I need to be, but thank God I am not where I used to be; I'm OK, and I'm on my way!"

Well, it's a little long for a bumper sticker, but what a great saying that is! It should be plastered everywhere because it is the truth. May God bless you continually. :prayer:
 
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this was sent to me in an email a couple days thought it would be suitable for this thread



Abraham was too old,?br>Jacob was a liar,
Leah was ugly,
Joseph was abused,
Moses was a murderer (like David and Paul),
Deborah was a woman,
Gideon was afraid,
Rahab was a prostitute,
Jeremiah and Timothy were too young,
David pretended to be crazy, had an affair, committed murder to cover it up and ran away from his own son,

Elijah was suicidal,
Jonah ran away from God,
Naomi was a widow,
Job was bankrupt,
John the Baptist ate locusts,
Peter was impulsive and hot-tempered,
John was self-righteous,?br>Martha worried about everything,
Mary Magdalene was demon-possessed,
The boy with the fish and five rolls of
bread was too unknown (and still is),
The Samaritan woman was divorced - more than once,
Zacchaeus was too short,
and Lazarus was dead;

Did we leave YOU out? No more
excuses! Everyone has value to God.
HE does not care who you ARE - only
who He can help you to become.


this explains that not even the most famous people in the Bible were perfect but god choose these people because they were faithful and the first step to becoming righteous is faithful.
 
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SapphirePink said:
Well, it's a little long for a bumper sticker, but what a great saying that is! It should be plastered everywhere because it is the truth. May God bless you continually. :prayer:

What an awesome Thread and answers! May God bless you all! Hedi
 
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