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faith177

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please pray for my husband, I dont know what is going on, but he has been a devoted husband for almost three years, all of a sudden hes moved in a young couple into our trailer. He said they had no place to go and they were going to buy the trailer, but now hes spending all his time out there with them. I need wisdom in how to deal with this last week I was really depressed I was crying and told him I felt really left out and unloved. He said he was just trying to make them feel comfortable I dont know, I am just worried about him and feel that he is feeling constrained by our marriage and kids and out there he can act like a teenager. :help:
 

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Heavenly FATHER, I come before YOU, in JESUS name and ask that Faith be granted a measure of YOUR peace and a double portion of wisdom to see with YOUR eyes what is happening in the lives of her husband, herself and the people he has taken in.

I can hear the worry and the stress in her words, LORD GOD and I ask that she be comforted in ways that only YOUR HOLY SPIRIT can provide. YOU and YOU alone know what is needed in this situation, and I ask that YOU would have YOUR way.

Grant Faith patience to stand strong in YOUR promises as she waits for the reasons for all this to unfold. Bless her indeed this day, in JESUS name.:amen:

HisFireFly
 
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Dear Father in Heaven,

I pray for Faith that you would help her in this time and grant her patience. I pray for her husband that he would be restored to the marriage. I pray that you would protect this family from the evil one. Please help this husband see what he is doing to the family and bring him home. Thank you Lord, In Jesus name I pray. Amen
 
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wow, here's some advice from one Jesus Freak to another. Its ok. Just remember that Jesus says "Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest." God cares for you and He wants you to cast your worries on Him. Tell God what you are feeling. He will grant you the wisdom. What your husband did was a very kind thing, and you should praise God for such a loving and thoughtful husband. Understand that he loves you but right now, he is helping others and you need to respect that. Allow him to have time with the guests. What he is doing could be a great witness, and it is all in God's will. Welcome the couple just like he is, and show them the love of God. You will be blessed in Heaven for that. I'm praying for you. Don't give up.

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I'm sorry to hear how much stress your husband's actions have put you under. It sounds as though he has done a loving deed by giving some people a home, but that, in this, he has forgotten about you and your family - and you feel out of control about all of this.

Lord,

I pray for Faith and her marriage and her family. We do not know what her husband's intentions are or were or what he and this couple are doing and whether or not is glorifying you. But You know, heavenly Father, and it is Your will that Your children have not a spirit of fear but of sound mind. Help my sister Faith to seek Your wisdom and strength in all of this. She feels out of control Father. Help her to be healed from this by knowing that You are in control Lord. Bless her relationship with her husband and with this family.

Thank You Lord that you are the same God whose nature it always is to have mercy.

Amen
 
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thank you to all my prayer warriors, it came to a big blow last night. Through your prayers my eyes were opened I saw more clearly the last months. We have only been married 2 1/2 yrs and we have both always done what we wanted and do not know how to compromise. He is feeling trapped by the responsibility of marriage I have felt him pulling away and I in turn have tried to grab on tighter which of course pushs him further away. I am going to my mothers for a week.
 
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i pray for you and your family that you would find peace and that god would give your husband wisdom in this and make him more sensitive to your needs. also i pray that god give you wisdom in how to deal with it. may his peace surround you and encompass you and may you grow stronger in the lord as you go through this valley.
 
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faith177 said:
He doesnt even care that I am leaving, I said I was leaving tomorrow and he just said how much money do you need, I feel like my marriage is ending I am heartbroken and he acts like its nothing. I dont know what to do. I dont even want to go home tonight.
My dear friend,

Still keeping you in my prayers, don't let the situation in front of your eyes keep you away from God. Stay strong!

My dear Heavenly Father,

I lift my friend up to you at this moment seeking for your help. Please strengthen her guide her through the struggles she is dealing with.

In Jesus' holy name. Amen
 
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