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I'm Going to Break!

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:hug: Big hug, relax breathe deep. God doesn't look at your grades, but how much you love and help other people. Don't let society impose all these wrongfull images on you, you are more beautifull then you could ever know, also all the worries you have are no real worries at all. You first of all have to learn how to love yourself. Stop being selfish and help your parents with all kinds of stuff and love them, show them you are a part of the family. Boyfriends well they come and Go, you see a guy can pack his bags and leave any day. Its unfortunate but not something you should worry about the only thing you can do is to replace a lost love with a new love, get yourself a new bf when you are ready and strong enough for a relationship. Your school, well its only a trivial thing, but its really your own choice of free will wether you want to invest effort in it or not, people cannot gain anything without making any sacrifices. Meaning you will have to do an effort in order to get good grades. Remember that God looks at your heart, and not at your grades.

One last thing :hug:

When you goto bed don't try to goto sleep with the thought that you have to sleep. Goto bed and when you lie down say to yourself ' i don't have to sleep im satisfied that i am laying down already'

Ok?

*much love* =) and sleep tight.
 
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how long ago did he break up with you? the reason im asking is because if you dont get over it in a certain time period I think it can turn into clinical depression.. so I think you should see a christian counsellor.. I had problems sleeping before too I think you should try some meltatonin for sleep.
 
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