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IJWTS- At least the thread split cheered me up a bit.
I tried to let you get first Caitlin!
Awe, what's wrong Caitlin?
Well, it's not like it was a small friendship or a shallow one.
That's why I feel so burnt by it.
This is the second time I've invested the time, effort and care into a female friendship for years. Only to have them turn around right before they got married and ditch me.
Since it's happened with two different girls it seems the common factor is me. I wish I knew what the heck is so good that they want to be around me all the time until they are getting married.
I'm sorry that talking about my situation created a situation here.

Two of my friends got married and I hardly ever see them now, and its completely understandable. Their lives are different then mine. Do they give me time if I really need it, yes, but all the time like they used too....no. I don't blame them one bit. When you add kids...forget it!
But I do miss them SO MUCH!