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Verve

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Awe, what's wrong Caitlin?

I just need to stop getting close to people who have toxic personalities.

Obviously not talking about Austin. He's the best person I could ever have in my life.
It's just as far as female friends, in real life...
It's not even worth ranting about. I'm tired of it.
 
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Whoa whoa whoa...
Everyone!!!

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Well, it's not like it was a small friendship or a shallow one.
That's why I feel so burnt by it.

This is the second time I've invested the time, effort and care into a female friendship for years. Only to have them turn around right before they got married and ditch me.

Since it's happened with two different girls it seems the common factor is me. I wish I knew what the heck is so good that they want to be around me all the time until they are getting married.

Two of my friends got married and I hardly ever see them now, and its completely understandable. Their lives are different then mine. Do they give me time if I really need it, yes, but all the time like they used too....no. I don't blame them one bit. When you add kids...forget it!

But I do miss them SO MUCH!
 
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Two of my friends got married and I hardly ever see them now, and its completely understandable. Their lives are different then mine. Do they give me time if I really need it, yes, but all the time like they used too....no. I don't blame them one bit. When you add kids...forget it!

But I do miss them SO MUCH!

She decided that my wedding date being a month after hers was offensive and kicked me out of the bridal party. She refuses to speak to me while all I've done is be supportive of her marriage.

Last time it was because the bride decided that since her ex and I were still on speaking terms. If I saw him out in public I was nice to him. That I wasn't supportive of her moving forward with her life.

It's not a simple matter of abandoning ship. These women wait until just before their weddings and set it out to sea burning.
 
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