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Obzocky

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I always imagine the persistent anonymous blessers (and they each have a style all their own) remain anonymous so as to avoid the fuss that sometimes follows when the name is on show. Names carry too much meaning at times, it interferes with the message being delivered.

It helps me feel happier about anonymous messages, viewing them at that angle.
 
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IJWTS- I spent the weekend flying out to Texas with a friend and driving back to Florida. It's been great! :D Should get to north Florida this evening!

IAWTS- New Orleans was a hoot and certainly very, very interesting! ^_^

IAAWTS- Suddenly, the GPS "recalculating" all the time isn't annoying anymore when your GPS guide is a very attractive-sounding Australian man! Hehe! ;):p




*Waits for Aaron to comment...*


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I need to earn a living somehow.
 
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I always imagine the persistent anonymous blessers (and they each have a style all their own) remain anonymous so as to avoid the fuss that sometimes follows when the name is on show. Names carry too much meaning at times, it interferes with the message being delivered.

It helps me feel happier about anonymous messages, viewing them at that angle.

I find it a little creepy because it only carries real meaning when you know who it is from.

For example I got one today that told me it's ok to be sad. So is anon telling me I should be sad and I'm not, I seem to be sad and it's ok, I'm a ratbag who should be sad or do they know something that should be personal and that they are quite happy to interfere in my affairs.
 
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I find it a little creepy because it only carries real meaning when you know who it is from.

For example I got one today that told me it's ok to be sad. So is anon telling me I should be sad and I'm not, I seem to be sad and it's ok, I'm a ratbag who should be sad or do they know something that should be personal and that they are quite happy to interfere in my affairs.

True.

How odd.
 
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I always imagine the persistent anonymous blessers (and they each have a style all their own) remain anonymous so as to avoid the fuss that sometimes follows when the name is on show. Names carry too much meaning at times, it interferes with the message being delivered.

It helps me feel happier about anonymous messages, viewing them at that angle.

I always view it that way, with the exception of the mass-blessers who send the same message to everyone on CF in a thinly veiled attempt at sincerity (though this seems to not be the case with today's blesser).

To me it's just lacking in honesty

I wouldn't say that - the words are honest, the person knows each member they choose to bless well enough to write a personal message, perhaps just choosing to remain anonymous to leave the message purely what it is, and not tainted by pre-existing notions of the sender, as Obzy suggested.

*shrug* That's always what I thought, anyway.
 
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IJWTS;

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