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IJWTS - What I find more annoying isn't the trolls but the people who are trolling the trolls. You may find it funny but I find it that you're being just as bad as you think they're being.


There are days when my oblivious nature is a positive thing. This week is one of them apparently.

On behalf of only myself- thanks Jennie for being a mod and dealing with the crap this board can produce. Oh- and thanks to any other mod that might see this! I ♥ you :D

IJWTS that its a great day to be alive cause the sun still shining when I close my eyes
 
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There are days when my oblivious nature is a positive thing. This week is one of them apparently.

On behalf of only myself- thanks Jennie for being a mod and dealing with the crap this board can product. Oh- and thanks to any other mod that might see this! I ♥ you :D

IJWTS that its a great day to be alive cause the sun still shining when I close my eyes
IJWTS - Thank YOU for being such an awesome person. :hug:

IAJWTS - I woke up way too early :yawn:
 
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I don't know what induces more bile.

The fact I can no longer tell trolls from non-trolls.
The way people just irritate me here, despite being perfectly lovely.
How I see the mod process and think "but it's rubbish, it is actually rubbish" and then feel bad because by thinking that you are implying mods are rubbish, which isn't the case, you just see that there are people who are modding who do not have the personality for modding. That is very confusing. A mod should not obviously play favourites, nor should they tout the rules themselves, they should not make allowances and they should have a backbone. This is not directed at any mod. It's just a frustration, a stupid frustration.
I hate the fact that people miss the opportunity to have a thorough discussion, an actual legitimate discussion, in favour of spamming with images. Seriously dudes, seriously, i'd rather take a question semi-seriously and respond than just spam it. Sure someone may be trolling, but sometimes "troll" questions are legitimate ones. Legitimate ones I have heard people ask here, in the real world. I don't like to think of someone stumbling across threads and thinking "that's how they deal with our questions, with that?".
I hate that this forum ... it's ridiculous. It is. It is utterly ridiculous.


I like forums, i'm an antisocial big mouth who likes to cut off communication but still shout out unwanted opinions. I like it. I like that I don't know anyone, I like that you don't know me, I like the range of questions (however endless and repetitive some of them are), I liked that people would take the time to respond with care and passion. I hate that i'm still coming here, I dislike how I now come here and it's only out of habit. A habit that is no longer fulfilling.

What infuriates me, really infuriates me, is that I know if this forum were the one I mod I would have shut down a lot of the current threads a long time ago. They would be shut down because people are not adding to the topic, because the messages are spam, because the reactions are not what I would call good conduct, because of the pattern found in the individuals posting style. But that's because when I have power I get all crazy and selectively weed out individuals who seem to deliberately try to stir up trouble. Within forum rules or not there is something called discretion. You lock, you remove posts, you discuss. But this isn't my forum, and that isn't how things are done.

I am also aware discussing mod actions is a no-no. Is discussing mod actions on another site if this were another site and you have the power a no-no? Is it? I don't know. Who cares. I'm only posting because it's a break and there's internet and coffee and love. Oh and frustration, frustration that I can't anonymously browse without coming across posts and thinking

WHY ARE YOU PROVING THAT YOU ARE NO BETTER THAN THEM, DO YOU WANT TO BE SMACKED WITH A WET FISH, DO YOU WANT TO FACE POST-RAGE, DO YOU WANT ME TO BEAT YOU WITH STALE BREAD.

Then calmness.

So much calmness.

It's not my problem.


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This is very passive aggressive.
It's my default posting style.
 
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I don't know what induces more bile.

The fact I can no longer tell trolls from non-trolls.
The way people just irritate me here, despite being perfectly lovely.

I hate the fact that people miss the opportunity to have a thorough discussion, an actual legitimate discussion, in favour of spamming with images. Seriously dudes, seriously, i'd rather take a question semi-seriously and respond than just spam it. Sure someone may be trolling, but sometimes "troll" questions are legitimate ones. Legitimate ones I have heard people ask here, in the real world. I don't like to think of someone stumbling across threads and thinking "that's how they deal with our questions, with that?".
I hate that this forum ... it's ridiculous. It is. It is utterly ridiculous.


What infuriates me, really infuriates me, is that I know if this forum were the one I mod I would have shut down a lot of the current threads a long time ago. They would be shut down because people are not adding to the topic, because the messages are spam, because the reactions are not what I would call good conduct, because of the pattern found in the individuals posting style. But that's because when I have power I get all crazy and selectively weed out individuals who seem to deliberately try to stir up trouble. Within forum rules or not there is something called discretion. You lock, you remove posts, you discuss. But this isn't my forum, and that isn't how things are done.

WHY ARE YOU PROVING THAT YOU ARE NO BETTER THAN THEM, DO YOU WANT TO BE SMACKED WITH A WET FISH, DO YOU WANT TO FACE POST-RAGE, DO YOU WANT ME TO BEAT YOU WITH STALE BREAD.

Then calmness.

So much calmness.

It's not my problem.



I adore you.

The end.
 
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IJWTS I am over the topic of trolls and ALL things related. I won't let the vibe of this place spoil my day. Get over it I say. Whats done is done and the further mention of this topic and "setting people straight" is just tiresome. We should all move on and allow things to calm down by not adding more wood to the flame. I am trying to not become annoyed right now and not take certain things too seriously or personally. Let it go. Let it go. It's just the internet. Just the internet. What a great thing to see on my birthday. I am going to be honest. I love it. I really do. It's magical. Feels me up with the warm fuzzies.


and on that note:

IAJWTS I am going to get Starbucks and a birthday cake pop because I deserve it.


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Ijwts I wouldn't mind terribly if I got a text saying to take the day off my back is killing me grrr overcast weather but I doubt i'll be so lucky .


Also I just wanted to ask: Ericka are those cake pops good I see them but have never tried one yet?
 
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Bring me back a tall Cinnamon Dolce Latte with whip! :hrelax:

Oh I've been craving one of those for days! ...Bring me back one too, Ericka
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Here you go loves!

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haps b-deezy again, but what the heck is this?? :scratch:

lol thanks, what the heck is what?

Also I just wanted to ask: Ericka are those cake pops good I see them but have never tried one yet?

A birthday cake pop?...what's that?

Oh dear dear, a cake pop is this

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Its a wondrous thing where its a ball of moist cake on a stick dip in sweet icing. I have only tried the birthday cake one and its slap your momma good. Unfortunately, the bday cake ones are VERY popular so it's kind of hard to find them. I had to got to two Starbucks today in my quest. Yes, I am that girl. Go, my children. Go and see for yourself how delicious they are!
 
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