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If I die in a state of mortal sin

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yes :o

i struggle with bulimia/self-injury and yesterday i realized that if i am intentionally disobeying God and doing what i know is wrong and not honoring to Him... it's blatant sin against Him and... as i understnad it grounds for mortal sin, but even if i wasn't scared for my soul... it's still a dangerous place to be in. but... yes i desire death... often... but as i told my best friend toniht... i wanna be with Jesus not in hell. :cry:

thank you for your prayers... right now is much better then 10 minutes ago. i will get through another night because of His grace.
 
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Have you been to counseling? I am not in any way experienced with this stuff, but is it possible that it might be depression or some chemical imbalance which needs counseling/medication?

Anyways, I just wanted to give you another hug:hug: :) .
 
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yes some, and i am planning to find a doctor soon... actually i have a check up for my insurance next wed and after that will make an appointment with a secular therapist/shrink... we;ll see what happens. :) i think some of it is chemical, but i also really believe that God has a reason and i will come out INCREDIBLY ready for something... lol... but at times like tonight im just like "ok God i have never encouraged anyone since all this started *6 - 8years ago* can u just take me home now so i dont hurt anyone else?" :)

THANK YOU!! i love hugs!!!
 
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Sisof8 said:
yes :o

i struggle with bulimia/self-injury and yesterday i realized that if i am intentionally disobeying God and doing what i know is wrong and not honoring to Him... it's blatant sin against Him and... as i understnad it grounds for mortal sin, but even if i wasn't scared for my soul... it's still a dangerous place to be in. but... yes i desire death... often... but as i told my best friend toniht... i wanna be with Jesus not in hell. :cry:

thank you for your prayers... right now is much better then 10 minutes ago. i will get through another night because of His grace.

bulimia and self-injury would fall into the same category as other addictions like drug addiction and alcoholism. It is not an easy place to be. Remember, God is merciful. I don't even know if these types of things fall into the category of mortal sin from what i remember. You do need to keep turning to God, praying to God, trusting in God, but please don't be in a constant fear of going to hell. LOVE GOD!! Thats what you need to do is Love God! Are you a Catholic Catachumen? Or are you considering the Catholic church? I would suggestion finding an adoration chapel nearby and going a few times a week. Go to mass every week also. It will help you. Also, try reading some of the lives of Saints. I am sorry for your pain and struggle in this life. I can relate because i have a similiar struggle of my own. please don't ever give up!:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: karen
 
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