I think since the "church" gives attention, nurtures and cares for marriage, that they should do the same for Singleness. People come from all different walks of life, many who never received any instruction on how to live life from their family of origin; let alone a Born Again life. Being a Single person in Christ is different than being Single in the world. To presume that Single people in Christ know the difference has caused a great deal of unnecessary pain for some.
I would think for those of us who are older that we can be honest about this as well as how age may shift desires and priorities. Singleness when you're 18 is not the same when you're 30 or when you're 50+. So I do wonder if that as well as race, gender, class, demographics, if people have been married before etc. affects how much a person is desiring a mate and if they're even seeking God for a mate.
Single people in Christ are a group that is very vast with all kinds of different needs. I think at the very least going over how people met their mates in the OT/NT would encourage many Single people. Some Single people might start to see that they have more options than what they thought...
I would think for those of us who are older that we can be honest about this as well as how age may shift desires and priorities. Singleness when you're 18 is not the same when you're 30 or when you're 50+. So I do wonder if that as well as race, gender, class, demographics, if people have been married before etc. affects how much a person is desiring a mate and if they're even seeking God for a mate.
Single people in Christ are a group that is very vast with all kinds of different needs. I think at the very least going over how people met their mates in the OT/NT would encourage many Single people. Some Single people might start to see that they have more options than what they thought...
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