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If God is not willing that any should perish, why do they?

Shulamite7

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Can i get some scripture about this?

Yes, it is true that the Lord does not want anyone to perish, but when man willfully decides to disobey God, He being a righteous God has to punish them. God's throne is based on righteousness and justice and He has to judge righteously. Otherwise, whats the point in giving all the commandments and commanding man not to do this and do that.

Righteousness and justice are the foundation of your throne. Psalms 89:14

If we deliberately keep on sinning after we have received the knowledge of the truth, no sacrifice for sins is left, but only a fearful expectation of judgment and of raging fire that will consume the enemies of God. Anyone who rejected the law of Moses died without mercy on the testimony of two or three witnesses. How much more severely do you think a man deserves to be punished who has trampled the son of God under foot, who has treated as an unholy thing the blood of the covenant that sanctified him, and who has insulted the spirit of grace? For we know him who said, "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," and again, "The Lord will judge his people." It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.
Hebrews 10:26-31
 
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Like a parent of a rebellious teenager, there is little God can do. He gave us the gift of free will. If he made us to do right, it really wouldn't have been "free" will.

Matthew 23:37-38 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not! Behold, your house is left unto you desolate.
 
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The problem here is you're putting too much emphasis on the use of the word "will" here. If the Lord "WILLS" something, then it happens, easy as you might click your fingers. But our relationship with God is one of Love, of free choice, if you force someone to Love you that is rape. This is not the nature of Our God. He has made us in his image and part of that image is a sovereign free will.

Now here is Acts 5:28, using the same Greek verb "boulomai" I've highlighted it in red

Saying, Did not we straitly command you that ye should not teach in this name? and, behold, ye have filled Jerusalem with your doctrine, and intend to bring this man's blood upon us.

This is the verse most used to show God's intent for mankind

Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God John 1:12

Here's some others to help you expand on the idea.

How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. 1 John 3:1

Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it. John 8:44

For this people's heart has become calloused; they hardly hear with their ears, and they have closed their eyes. Otherwise they might see with their eyes, hear with their ears, understand with their hearts and turn, and I would heal them.' Matthew 13:15

Say to them, 'As surely as I live, declares the Sovereign LORD, I take no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but rather that they turn from their ways and live. Turn! Turn from your evil ways! Why will you die, O house of Israel?' Ezekiel 33:11

This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live. Deuteronomy 30:19
 
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Can i get some scripture about this?

People perish because God lets us decide to choose Him, or not, and many people chose against God, therefore, they perish. Here's why they make that choice;
John 3:18-20(NLT)
18 “There is no judgment against anyone who believes in him. But anyone who does not believe in him has already been judged for not believing in God’s one and only Son. 19 And the judgment is based on this fact: God’s light came into the world, but people loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil. 20 All who do evil hate the light and refuse to go near it for fear their sins will be exposed.
 
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Dear Aximili. Jesus died that we might live, that shows great love, to give one`s Life is the greatest. In Matthew 22, verse 35-40, Jesus tells a Lawyer: "On these two Commandments hang all all the Law and the Prophets"
1) Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
2) Love thy neighbour as thyself." God wants our Love, freely given and no conditions tagged on. There is also God`s eternal Law of Justice. Better known as " Whatever ye sow ye will also reap." For those who do not want to love and care, they will follow their own way, and will reap the consequences.
We have the choice of two ways to go: either return to God as His loving children/sons and daughters, or we will end up in Outer Darknes, without God`s Love or Light. God will not force us in any way, God is Love, and Loves us as our Heavenly Father. It is with us, Aximili, whether we want to return to God, or go our ow way. Jesus our Saviour, is ever-ready to lead us back to where we came from. I say this with love. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.
 
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There is some perdition that does not lead to death, such as marriage.

Thus some perdition is allowed, and some people die, because they do not properly heed the warnings around attempting it.

For example some people get married, but then think they want divorce: they die.

Better to heed the will of God and be sure to bring others to the Lord, than guess.
 
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Whilst I agree with most of what has been said, there is more to it and it relates to the character of God and the character of love.

The first point is in the nature of love. Love and control do not co-exist. It is impossible to seek to control someone's behaviour and have a loving motive. You can ask any marriage counsellor about this.

The second point is to do with the nature of God. The characteristics of God all reference, support and define each other's scope. God is all-powerful, all-knowing and all-seeing, but there are things He is unable to do because to do so would contradict another part of His nature. A simple example of this is that God cannot lie because He is truth.

From those two points we can understand that free will wasn't given to us because God thought it was a good idea. Free will is ours because God cannot control us because He is love.

Does God always get His will? In light of the above, the answer must be no.

Are there any Bible indications that God doesn't always get His will? The following make sense to me:

o Why would Jesus have encouraged us to pray "your will be done here on earth as it is in heaven" (matt 6) if God's always got His will. It would be a pointless prayer.

o Jesus didn't perform many miracles in His home town because of their lack of faith (matt 13). Previously, Jesus had healed many as He had travelled about preaching. It seems to me that He would have expected to do the same in His home town and that it would have been God's will for this to happen. That it didn't suggests to me that God didn't get His will in that situation.

Coming back to the original question - it is God's will that none perish, but He doesn't get His will all the time.

I hope this helps a little.

Blessings,

Mike
 
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Coming back to the original question - it is God's will that none perish, but He doesn't get His will all the time.

Hmm I think Calvin would have a thing or two to say about that. But let's stick to the milk for now.

Look there's a very simple answer for this question. "Will," is the word that the translators used in this passage. They could have easily substituted the word "will" with intent or desire. Your applying your English language brain to the word. The original text doesn't not convey this meaning. Simple...
 
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Like a parent of a rebellious teenager, there is little God can do. He gave us the gift of free will. If he made us to do right, it really wouldn't have been "free" will.

And they key to that is love. A puppet or robot cannot love. Love is only possible if there are anti-love alternatives.

My belief is that God created us with free will within certain constraints. God's all-powerful sovereignty prevents some things, but allows us some degrees of freedom. This is illustrated in God's granting the Devil some ability to attack Job, but there were limits (ie. he couldn't kill Job). God didn't use evil against Job, but His sovereign will allowed for some evil events to take place.

God wants us to love Him, but I don't think it's within our capacity to love Him without the cooperation of the Holy Spirit. So in that sense, there is some truth to predestination as well. God has to open the door, or we could never do it on our own.

There may be some cases where God does not allow the option to love Him (Judas and Pharaoh are possible examples). However, I believe that most of us are given a window of opportunity where God beckons and the Holy Spirit is our helper, but we make the final choice between loving God and loving the world.
 
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Hmm I think Calvin would have a thing or two to say about that.

You know I read somewhere that people still believe what Calvin wrote to be right. How quaint.


Right, now then, look, you can interchange "intent", "desire" and "will" in what I wrote and still come to the same conclusion.

Mike
 
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What a nicely written and thought out post.

I'm going to nit-pick, please excuse me -- maybe windows of opportunity

Blessings,

Mike
 
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MikeBigg said:
I'm going to nit-pick, please excuse me -- maybe windows of opportunity

Quite right. It may be multiple windows, one long one, one short one... who knows? But I do think there are seasons where the window is closed for some, and trying to force it will not be effective.
 
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Quite right. It may be multiple windows, one long one, one short one... who knows? But I do think there are seasons where the window is closed for some, and trying to force it will not be effective.

I agree - I've known people say that when sharing their testimonies. I don't really understand why, though.
 
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You know I read somewhere that people still believe what Calvin wrote to be right. How quaint.

Who, people like Luther you mean?

I'll be happy to happy to tell God you think the idea of his omniscience and him being omnipresent is quaint. Oh wait... he already knows, in fact he already knew you were going to say it before you did...

Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations." Jeremiah 1:5

But when God, who set me apart from birth and called me by his grace, was pleased Galatians 1:15

Listen to me, you islands; hear this, you distant nations: Before I was born the LORD called me; from my birth he has made mention of my name. Isaiah 49:1

And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified. Romans 8:30


Now please brother, being nasty only creates nastiness. This is a debate not for this forum. These are new Christians, this is big grown up Christian stuff. Many of the things of the bible are not understood by the natural mind, but can only be spiritually discerned. But yes, Christ always knew you were going to accept his offer of salvation. Yes that poses many philosophical issues...

The idea is not quaint, or easy to grasp, but if you pray sincerely to ask the Holy spirit to reveal these things to you, he will show you the truth.
In Jesus's name...
 
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What if God DOES get his will all the time? I'm reading an interesting book--drawing heavily from translators and scholars of Scripture--which makes a strong case that hell is corrective and not eternal. Part of the argument stems from the mistranslation of the word aieon or aionios as meaning eternal or forever when it really means age or a period of time. The book is titled, Hope Beyond Hell: The Righteous Purpose of God's Judgment.

Or...in other words, the Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches that no one has the right to say that someone is going to hell, or what hell even is, for that matter. We are given the metaphors of fire or a burning refuse dump (gehenna), but the Catechism suggests that heaven and hell are not places, but rather states of being.
 
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I think I see the problem here, we need to be reading the bible and not devoting so much of our time to "other things."

Now if we manage to make it to the judgement of the saints the "books" will be opened and you will see why God was righteous in condemning Sin. Then only then will we probably fully understand Gods judgement. But have no doubt God is HOLY! I suggest you make a study into the word Holy. Now when Christ made the analogy of Gehenna he used the example of the Worst possible "PLACE" the Jews could think of.

Anyways isn't the Catholic church close to overturning the doctrine of purgatory. Is this the replacement; what you're talking about above? Yes I seem to remember reading something about it recently. Some big council had a pop at the idea.
 
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I do not know if that book is correct or not, but it presents a strong argument.

Anyway, the Bible says that Jesus did not come to condemn the world, but to save it. The Apostles' Creed says, "I believe in the forgiveness of sins." That's what the Good News is all about.
 
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Now please brother, being nasty only creates nastiness.
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I wasn't nasty. Were you? Is that some kind of threat. How odd.

No wait, you're a Calvinist, of course its odd.

One day you'll understand ... I hope for your sake it is sooner rather than later.

Kind regards,

Mike
 
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One day you'll understand ... I hope for your sake it is sooner rather than later.

Oh right I've failed to understand. Please tell me then, tell me what it is my itching ears are longing to hear.

But please don't assign labels to me brother. I understand many different theological perspectives but I am not "a Calvinist" as you understand the term.



Steve I advise caution on this doctrine. The bible tells us the wages of Sin is Death. Part of understanding the gospel message is also understanding that we stand in condemnation of God's holy law and that there is a punishment assigned to that failure to keep the law.

It is only with this knowledge can we be humbled and truly turn to Christ in a spiritual sense and accept his offer of payment.

Be very careful of any doctrine that would attempt to lessen the ultimate punishment for breaking God's Law. It is this very knowledge that makes us run to Christ.
So caution then brother. Just be careful.
 
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