"If God Exists, Why Does He Allow Evil?"
From my Bible consideration and prayer I get >
God does not "allow" evil, but is in control of all evil > Romans 8:28, Romans 9:14-22, 11:33-36, Ephesians 1:11, and consider how evil was used by God to bring better than what the evil had done to Joseph > Genesis 37-50.
There is "the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience," Paul says in Ephesians 2:2. This evil spirit is in people's disobedience, and in the middle of all the evil; and God is moving disobedient people and their evil to hell . . . away from the new heaven and new earth > Isaiah 65:17, Revelation 21:1.
So, evil and its people are not being "allowed", but they are being processed to the flaming sewer which burns with fire and brimstone - - where they will spend eternity, reaping all that they have been sowing > Galatians 6:7-8.
But God does not want anyone to perish; so our Father sent Jesus to rescue us from our sin and hell > John 3:16. And Jesus does not want us to suffer in our sin; Jesus calls to "all" with hope for "all" >
"'Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.'" (Matthew 11:28-29)
So, Jesus does feel for us; He cares how we are and how we feel. He wants us to have . . . to share . . . rest with Him
And so, "God resists the proud," we have in James 4:6 and also in 1 Peter 5:5.
God resists us while we are doing things in ego, so that our pride does not take us where Satan would take us. But people in pride can be very stubborn and nasty; only very hard and painful things can slow them down or stop them, in a number of cases. But then ones blame God for the "evil" > trouble which they could have avoided, by submitting to God and obeying how He would have taken care of them > "casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7 > also see Proverbs 3:5-6)
So, God's resistance, I understand, can include some pretty rough events, but in order to keep the person from getting into much worse trouble. But the person will not listen to God; and so the person is met with resistance which meets the person at his or her level.
By the way, your own sinning can be what brings trouble and pain which is not included in God's resistance, possibly. For only one example . . . if you hold on to unforgiveness, your unforgiveness has you in Satan's spiritual realm where things work the way he has things working. By staying unforgiving in the kingdom of evil, you can be an easy target for things to be unforgiving about! Your unforgiveness can be a magnet to attract things to be unforgiving about. Not to mention . . . in unforgiveness, you will stay weak enough to suffer plenty about what you are unforgiving about.
You can suffer so much more than you deserve to suffer, because sin is not fair.
By the way . . . a person can act very nice, but suffer major tragedies. But if that "nice" person is not obeying God, this can be a very bad example which helps other people to miss out on God. So, the "nice" ones can be more dangerous than the mean and nasty ones. And so, ones misleading people from God can suffer major trouble, in order to keep them from continuing.
But, like I say, this is only because they are not satisfied to be humble and quiet and hear and obey God. They are being reached at the level where they can communicate, so they don't get into much worse trouble; and yet ones keep on refusing.
You are accountable for the message of your example!!
We can't make people listen, but God does use our good example >
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
His resistance can only slow people down and stop certain activities. But God uses our example and prayer . . . and obedience > consider also Genesis 22:18
You might look at how the example of a wife can be used to win a disobedient husband > 1 Peter 3:1-4. By having "the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit", she can be pleasing to our Father, plus He can spread her spiritual example to her hubby and make him the same way that she really is, in the sight of God.
How you are, "in the sight of God", is spreading with power to make others the same way!!!