Ideal Person

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

Do you have an "ideal" image of attractive? Like, if you could have picked out all the physical qualities in your parter, what would those be?

Is your partner "ideal"? (meaning that they have the looks that you always admired...or are they a little different than your "ideal" but still love them anyway?)

 

[f U z ! o N]

Do you have an "ideal" image of attractive? Like, if you could have picked out all the physical qualities in your parter, what would those be?

Is your partner "ideal"? (meaning that they have the looks that you always admired...or are they a little different than your "ideal" but still love them anyway?)

she is the absolute ideal and is extremely attractive! she is perfect in my eyes

 

[shep87]

the only attractive features i see when i look at someone else is their faith, and personality.

 

[Keri]

My ideal in a spouse would be someone smart, funny, nice, romantic and someone who has God put first in their life.

I know that outward attractiveness is only temporary. Looks fade but your personality and heart stay throughout the years.

I feel that if you really love someone, you'd love how they look, no matter what others thought of them.

 

[inchristalone221]

She is ideal in every way. She never believes me when I tell her how beautiful she is, but seriously to me she is the most beautiful person who ever lived.

 

[MN John]

For me physical attraction comes only after getting to know and love someone. There are people who appeal to my carnal nature immediately, but this is actually a detriment to my considering any kind of real attraction to them. However, once I love someone from the inside out, then I find that I also am completely atteacted to them from the outside in.

This was true with Sara when I was in love with her, but now she is physically neutral in my eyes.

This is true with Jan. although now that I see her with love's eyes, I cannot imagine that she would not always have attracted me physically.

I guess my brain changes.

 

[Carri20]

I do have an ideal image of attractive...a specific body type that I prefer. (By the way, there's nothing wrong with having a preferance as long as it doesn't turn into lust. Some people act as if it's a sin to find a body attractive.) I met the man who is now my fiance on a Christian website and for the first several weeks had only a picture of his face to go by as far as looks, and the picture was about a year old I think. I had no way of knowing what the rest of him looked like and to be honest I didn't give much thought to it. Later, after I began to love him for the person he is, I learned that he is in fact my ideal physical type as well. But I would have loved him the same if he'd been a complete contradiction of my ideal. In fact I'm quite sure my ideal would have changed to suit him.