I was told I am grieving

[uniquetadpole]

Hi... I am not sure if I am in the right place here. I have a form of Autism called Asperger's Syndrome and as a result I have difficulty both expressing and labeling my feelings. I have been through a rather traumatic abusive 8 year relationship that I got out of this past August. And as a result I am discovering just how much he has stolen from me...

Someone told me that I was grieving what I lost... I really don't know what they mean by that... I have heard of grief associated with a death... but don't get that either. If anyone could enlighten me I would appreciate it.

PS metaphors and literal understandings will get through to me best...if there are any.

 

[cassyrode]

Ive heard the crying of your heart. I have seen the searching of your soul. I know how deeply you have desired the truth In pain you have cried out for it. When I see you I am overewhelmed with tears and wish to hold you close to me. Go ahead now, Ask me anything. Anything. I will speak to you if you listen. The words to the next song you hear, the information in the next article you read, The story line of the next movie you watch, The chance utterence of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river. The next ocean. The next breeze that carresses your ear. All these devices are mine. I will come to you if you invite me. I will show you then that I have Always been there...

Always.

 

[uniquetadpole]

Ive heard the crying of your heart. I have seen the searching of your soul. I know how deeply you have desired the truth In pain you have cried out for it. When I see you I am overewhelmed with tears and wish to hold you close to me. Go ahead now, Ask me anything. Anything. I will speak to you if you listen. The words to the next song you hear, the information in the next article you read, The story line of the next movie you watch, The chance utterence of the next person you meet. Or the whisper of the next river. The next ocean. The next breeze that carresses your ear. All these devices are mine. I will come to you if you invite me. I will show you then that I have Always been there...

Always.

I gues I am really slow or something...what are you trying to say here in relation to my question?

 

[c1ners]

She was speaking God's words to you.
Letting you know that he is always there for you.
Even when you can't see him, nor feel him, he is there.

 

[uniquetadpole]

Okay...I am cool with that ...just didn't get the connection with what it had to do with my question

Someone told me that I was grieving what I lost... I really don't know what they mean by that... I have heard of grief associated with a death... but don't get that either. If anyone could enlighten me I would appreciate it.