Hi, I apologize if I'm posting in the wrong section but I really want help and advice. I'm 17 years old and I am a lesbian and athiest. I have always laughed at the thought of God and I didn't care about what anyone had to say about my sexuality. But lately I have been thinking a lot and talking to my Christian friends about recovery. I have been trying to talk to God. I feel as though I can't make a real connection to him because I have lived my life in so much sin and anger. I was wondering if anyone can give me tips on how to fight this battle and how to become closer to God because I now feel he is real I just want him to forgive me for my actions. I really want to live for him and make my family and friends proud. Thank you in advance for any advice.
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Hi,
It's often quite an adjustment moving from a non Christian to a Christian basis for living. There are often a few bumps along the way.
Whether you just had some same sex relationships as an expression of your matured sexuality (that's not uncommon) or you recognise long term tendencies towards same sex relationship will be a factor in what you will need to do to change.
John
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It's often quite an adjustment moving from a non Christian to a Christian basis for living. There are often a few bumps along the way.
Whether you just had some same sex relationships as an expression of your matured sexuality (that's not uncommon) or you recognise long term tendencies towards same sex relationship will be a factor in what you will need to do to change.
John
NZ
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Jupiter Drops
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Hello, and welcome!
Someone once told me that every day is a battle for Christians. This is true because we Christians fight against worldly temptations and sins. We do that because God called us back to His goodness and light.
Jesus died for our sins, as stated in John 3:16.
He called us His children. He gave us rest. We don't need worldly things because He completes us (Psalms 23).
First, you must ask for His forgiveness. Remember every sins that you've committed. Sins are something that doesn't honor God, who is the light and the truth. At first, it will be difficult because you won't 'feel' anything. But we don't live by sight. We live by faith (2 Corinth 5:7). We live in His love and salvation and that is what we rejoice by.
By accepting Jesus into our lives, we can now start a brand new day with Him. We acknowledge that we are imperfect and broken in many area, and we take His words to be more like Him and follow Him.
Now, it's a good idea to start easy by reading the Four Gospels of the New Testament. I recommend John or Matthew.
And always remember:
Have a blessed day.
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joey_downunder
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You might be interested in this young woman's testimony. Young and Homosexual - SermonAudio.com
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How are you doing Bree? I was an atheist once, well really more of an agnostic. I could not accept the level of faith required to be a Christian and just wanted some type of proof. If you work out your beliefs first, the later will be a much simpler task. You have done NOTHING that cannot be forgiven. The formula is simple: ask, repent, believe. The action is not as easy but when you are ready, God will accept you and you will grow as you gain knowledge. It is the knowledge that converted me. Life will throw things at you, things so hard a human doesn't seem equipped to handle it. It was those curve balls that brought me to the point of seeing the Lord for what he is: a truly awesome and wonderful God who is both holy and powerful and loving and caring. You get to a point that you see so much when you step out in faith that each step reaffirms your belief and every action you take towards God receives a reaction from God and a faith builder. You have already accept the possibility of God by speaking and acknowledging Him...what a great step in the right direction. I will be in prayer for you to increase in your knowledge of the Lord and and to have true peace in your life. If you ever need to talk, please feel free, I would be honored and I am sure the rest of the folks here would too.
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Hi Bree,
It's good that you have come to this forum in your search for God. May our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ open your eyes to the knowledge of Him. God has a plan for your life. Keep seeking God without giving up - He will reveal Himself to you. It's beautiful to know Jesus. I would suggest you join a good local Church, so that you can grow spiritually. Try asking some folks out here for good churches in your locality. God bless you.
Sharon
It's good that you have come to this forum in your search for God. May our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ open your eyes to the knowledge of Him. God has a plan for your life. Keep seeking God without giving up - He will reveal Himself to you. It's beautiful to know Jesus. I would suggest you join a good local Church, so that you can grow spiritually. Try asking some folks out here for good churches in your locality. God bless you.
Sharon
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Praying for you. I am so glad for you and for those who care about you that you want to change. I've been praying hard for my best friend to wanting to change. I've been through it, so if you want to talk, msg me 
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