I want to be in PlayBoy.

[wayfaring man]

Originally posted by Car Chick :- " What can I do for Him when I don't want to do anything? "

Dear Car ,

When we are weak in our faith , our desire to serve the Lord is weak also .

But all it takes is enough faith to believe that our Heavenly Father Loves us and Knows what's Best for us .

Did not Jesus clearly demonstrate this by suffering and dying on The Cross , so that we might be spared the condemnation of the Devil and the ensuing Wrath which is to come ?

Do something for the Lord - do what is most clearly His Word , His Will , His Wisdom ; no matter how small , just do it - even if you don't feel much motivation from within . Because the motivation to serve The Lord Jesus comes largely from experiencing the Blessedness which we receive after applying the faith He has given us .

This is a form of " proving " which is free of the many pitfalls that are found in attempting to see , what it is exactly , that God disapproves of , and why ?

Of the Patriarch Abraham , it is said " Who against hope believed in hope " <---> From Romans 4:18

Sometimes we must move forward in our hope towards God , while there is yet no confirmation within our self , that our hope is going to bring peace and fulfillment , the likes of which , none other can !

And they went forth, and preached everywhere, the Lord working with them, and confirming the word with signs following. Amen . <-----> Mark 16:20

Consider these things , and the Scriptural advice many have labored to share with you , without any selfish gain to be had , only the hope , that you will be greatly assisted in the Way which is Right and True ; that Jesus will be magnified , and our faith and hope in God will grow purer and stronger ; together , as the grateful children of Christ's Heavenly Kingdom .

May you be guided By the Light of the counsel of God's Word .

Give place to beholding and reflecting upon Jesus' Testimony .

And invite His Life Giving Spirit into each and every moment of your day .

For in this does our Salvation elevate and invigorate , what is otherwise a vain and/or mundane , ever so brief , existence .

"... I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly. <-----> John 10:10

May The Lord Bless ,

wm

 

[Lizzi4Christ]

I am sick of everything right now. I am stuck inbetween two kingdom's: God's Kingdom and satan's. I know I should chose God but lately Ive been feeling like I don't have time for Him and how can I fit everything in my day and still have Him a part of my life. The easiest way out seems to be going to Play Boy and enjoying what I do but.....oh jeez I can't even write down what I am trying to say. I feel screwed up, I try to mean one thing but it comes out in a total different view. I am confused with everything, with chosing between God and Satan....the devil has been attacking my mind real hard these days and I just want what is easier and more fun. I feel like I can't do anything for God. What can I do for Him when I don't want to do anything?

God is Lord of all. There is none before Him. We shouldn't have to "make time" for Him. He should be our everything. He comes first.

Getting online support is a step. But now you need to make a bigger one. I strongly suggest that you find a Christian woman who you can talk to this about. You need to find a mentor that will help you. Maybe the wife of a pastor or youth pastor.

Remember that feelings are decieving. You need to make a consious decision that you will follow God no matter how much you don't. It's hard. It's very hard. But you are not the only person who wants to do one thing while God is saying to do another.

Pray. Really pray.

 

[theFijian]

I must be honest here Car Chick, but from what you have been saying you are not a Christian. You say you believe in God but you obviously haven't made the decision to bend the knee and accept Christ as you Lord and Saviour. Even the demons believe, yet they tremble. You seem to be well aware that the path you want to go down leads away from God and to nothing but misery and pain yet you still wish to go down it for some temporary pleasures.

Please think seriously about what you are doing. Speak to other christians in person (not on this forum) seek help from a counselor perhaps or a local christian minister that you know. Pornography is a snare into which many people fall, despite what you may think or what other people may say, it is destroying lives all across the land. It robs people of their self-esteem, it ruins relationships, it devalues and trivialises sex which God gave to mankind as a most beautiful gift.

Peace to you

Andy

 

[tanya88]

Think of it this way. Do you want to have a family?????
If you are going to be on playboy you can never have a normal family. Would your husband be ok with you showing your body to people. Or how about your kids. I would be too proud of my mom if she was in playboy.

 

[livin4thebigman]

I must be honest here Car Chick, but from what you have been saying you are not a Christian. You say you believe in God but you obviously haven't made the decision to bend the knee and accept Christ as you Lord and Saviour. Even the demons believe, yet they tremble. You seem to be well aware that the path you want to go down leads away from God and to nothing but misery and pain yet you still wish to go down it for some temporary pleasures.

We are not to judge eachother! Because someone has flaws in their life, that does not negate their christianity. This woman is having problems and needs advice, not people judging her.

Think of it this way. Do you want to have a family?????
If you are going to be on playboy you can never have a normal family. Would your husband be ok with you showing your body to people. Or how about your kids. I would be too proud of my mom if she was in playboy.

This is what is known as an argument from silence. There is no proof what you're stating. In actuality you are stating what you think would happen with no proof to back it up. How do you know "you can never have a normal family?" What proof do you have?

 

[happily_saved]

Hi Girl,

Okay hear me out here okay. Man girl, dont go down this road. In Matthew 5 it says "Blessed are the pure in heart for they will see God". Girl do you want to see God. Have you ever felt his closeness in your life!? If you have think of how that felt. Think about never having that again how that would feel. I'm gonna quote something out of my bible for ya okay. It's a side note. It says "Whats wrong with dirty magazines? Sure, you're curious. But if you act on that desire, it'll hurt you now- and in the future. According to Jesus, looking at those pictures to inflame your lust is just the same as commiting adultery (sexual involvment with someone to whom you are not married). Even if no once else knows, God Will. And once you read that magazine, its images will be imprinted in your mind. It's better to keep a clean mind and heart and learn to view people as God does: With eternal worth that goes beyond their physical appearance". MAtthew 5:27-28 says "Do not commit adultery." But say, anoyone who even looks at a woman with lust in his eye has already commited adultery with her/him in his/her heart." Girl, you may think it's fun. But that's only for a short while. It will ruin your life. God gave you something that is so precious. Beauty, a heart that is to be for him. Your body is a temple. Treat it with respect, do not violate it or let anyone else violate it. Galatians 5:19,22 says "When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, your lives will produce.... Evil results...But when the Holy Spirit controls our lives, he will produce this kind of fruit in us" So girl, Here is the question. WHO DO YOU WANT TO LIVE FOR? GOD, OR SATAN? Jesus Said: "Whoever isn't for me is against me" Please hun, dont make this mistake alright. Reach for him, dont fall away.

Father God,
I just pray for this girl right now. Lord Satan has taken a foothold in her life and he is holding on tight. God I just pray Lord that she would come to see what evil is trying to overtake her. I pray you would have her know Lord that this is not the way. That all of this is very impure and is going to mess up her life and take away her innocence. Lord God, I pray that you have her know that it is not too late to turn back to you. I pray that you have her know, that as long as she runs into your arms you will be awaiting to pick her up and comfort and protect her. As long as she asks for help you will help her and forgive her abundantly. You love us so much God, and we owe it to you to offer up our lives and bodies as living sacrifices for you. For those who are pure in heart will see God. I pray that she chooses to turn away from this Sin and turn to you so that you may work in her life and she will fulfill the wonderful plan you have for her. I pray Lord that you cast satan away father and that your light would shine in her life. These pictures, these magazines, are nothing but sin and will burn in hell. I pray that she wouldn't dissapear with these but that she would be clothed in white and held up by your right hand and she would be a living testimony. Please Lord I pray she turns away from this. In Jesus' Name. Amen.

Girl, Trust me ok, it's the right thing to turn away. Throw it all away and turn to God. It isn't too late. Become pure, he can and will make you new again.

You can get this book, awesome book and it will really help. It is called Wait For Me by rebecca st.James. Read your bible everyday as hard as it is to build the habit and pray so hard ok? I know I dont know you, But I Love You. God is setting such a passion in my heart to see you make the right choice. Girl, I love you, and so does Jesus. My email address is happily_saved@hotmail.com you email me anytime and I'll be here.


Danielle

Read Galatians 5:16-26

 

[theFijian]

We are not to judge eachother! Because someone has flaws in their life, that does not negate their christianity. This woman is having problems and needs advice, not people judging her.

My opinion does not negate her Christianity, her own words do.

 

[startingover]

Car Chick, you know in your heart that posing in Playboy or any other pornopgraphy is wrong. None of us here needs to tell you that. You would not have came to this board soliciting advice if you were not troubled by this.

As a Christian, you know lust is wrong. That is what porn is for! There is no good things, nothing that pleases God about it. Nudity is beautiful, but it should only be shared between a husband and his wife.

My soon to be ex-husband was addicted to porn. I find it very irritating and offensive that being one of those objects he lusted after so badly is such a dream of yours. But I do know where you are coming from. I messed up a LOT as a teenager... doing things very similar to what you are going through... and it has really messed up my life.

My advice to you... go to church, get involved in a Bible study, read your Bible daily, be a real Christian woman. Don't go to a photogrpaher to have your pictures done. Cancel any porn memberships or magazine subscriptions you have. You know what you need to do.

 

[KidDitto]

CA chick said

Ok lets get the men thing out of the subject for a bit, so it is ok to model nude for playboy or porn sites/magazines as long as I am not having sex or am sexually active and having desires about men? Wow...

Emshem said

Doooode, I don't believe Ca Chick for a second.

I don't believe her either. Why would someone post here on a Christian site to "see" if they can be in porn?

You already have the answer.

 

[TheMainException]

I'm not gonna bash you....having sex IS a lot of fun...please, resist the temptation that satan lays before you...these sexual fantasies are sin enough...keep seeking God, don't let your heart become hard...pray that you would find a new path to follow so that this path isn't so tempting...it may be fun now...but what happens if you get pregnant or even worse...they accidentally allow someone with aids to have sex with you??? Then what? Will anything good ever come of this??? Keep praying, and try to do some Bible reading if you can...and if you ever need anyone to talk to, I won't reject you if you still choose to go down this path in your life...

 

[armyman_83]

You cant bake your cake and eat it too....

 

[wayfaring man]

You cant bake your cake and eat it too....

Hi armyman ,

I know what you mean to say .

But it's worth noting .

That technically ,

One can bake their cake and eat it . And one can have their cake and eat it .

But , one cannot eat their cake , and have it too .

For once it is eaten , it's not exactly cake anymore !

Hoping you're in good with the Master Baker .

wm

 

[daddyzgurl7]

car .. ..wow yeah ...did u kno that what ur dealing with has scriptures about it in the bible....here

1corin.3:16-17 do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the spirit of God dwells in you,if any man defiles the temple of God ,him shall God distroy.For the temple of God is holy ,which temple you are

basiclly what he's saying is the showing ur body like that to the whole world is like fornication and if u fornicate Gods temple which u are Gods not really happy about that,so if u do that its a great sin and unless u dont do that ....ur following the ways of satan not God.

 

[livin4thebigman]

My opinion does not negate her Christianity, her own words do.

Well in if you read her the first part of her post, she says "I have a been a Christian all my life..."

In "her own words" she is stating that she's a Christian.

-matt

 

[Johnnz]

An interesting post.

There are some people who are very sexual, love being naked and having sex. No problems with that.

I do have problems with Playboy.

For some, especially those with a very active sex drive, sex is there to be enjoyed as much as possible. Once started it just 'takes off'.

Given what I have said, your behaviour does not uphold Christian values. You will find it very hard to go back to Christian sexual values. But not impossible. It will take some very radical thinking and wise Christian to support you in that journey. There are some real issues you will need to face.


John
NZ

 

[0be1]

Ok lets get the men thing out of the subject for a bit, so it is ok to model nude for playboy or porn sites/magazines as long as I am not having sex or am sexually active and having desires about men? Wow...

Hopefully I am saying this right, and feel led to do so. You have freewill to do whatever you want, and only you will have to answer for it in the end. BUT, if you are / were a Christian you would understand what I am about to say. You may be happy with your body, and love to "flaunt" a great gift that God has given you, but you would be causing more harm than good for God's glory, and even though you may have this "wonderful" body, it will not last forever. Think of the hurt you will not realize that you are causing by doing this. The disappointment from your parents, the broken marriages and relationships because of pornography, and especially the pain that Christ Himself endured on the cross for our sins. What would happen if you were in a serious car crash, then how would you feel about your body? If you had strong faith, your body would not be that important, but you would still have a great relationship with God.

Secondly, as a recovering sex addict (label I guess) I can say that I once enjoyed looking at many women nude and such (no affiars or anything like that) but for the times I have had sex with my wife, I did not realize what I was robbing both her and I of, and that is the greatest gift that God gives to married couples, a safe environment to express ourselves sexually and pleasing to God.

2 Co. 6:3 - We put no stumbling block in anyone's path, so that our ministry will not be discredited.

If you are a Christian, you are a part of this ministry. It is things such as these that the "world" looks at Christians doing. So if we are doing it, it must be o.k., and it is not. I pray that you do what's right, and that you turn (repent) back to God. That you can chalk this up as life experiences, and do what God has planned for your life, not what you want. Harsh words maybe, but I am being honest looking at it from the point of my addiction that I hate and that God wants to deliver me and many others from. To God be the glory!

In His Peace...

 

[forgivenmuch]

i really dont see this as being real.. i feel that if she thinks it is ok to let men see her body nude..and shes not having sex with them... what does she think the men are doing behind thier computer screen at home? im sure if they are looking at this kind of stuff they are doing exactly what she is saying she wont be doing.. you are setting your-self up for a fall girl... if this is a real post.. you need to get saved..turn to God..because you cant serve two masters.. you will have to choose one.. your stratling the fence..and thats only going to make you reap coals of fire.. back on you.. be aware of decisions you make in life.. you will reap what you sow.. the bible tells us that.. i will be in prayer for you... i hope you make the right choice.. pray and get to know our loving savior

 

[bkg]

I'll add something to this, but in a different light.

I've done a lot of things in my life that I would give anything to have a chance to do over. Things that I've said or things that I've done to hurt myself, my exwife, the people that I love. Over time, and by the Grace of God, the wounds that I have left in my wake will heal and eventually (God willing) disappear.

But if you really go through with posing nude for cameras of any time, you will NEVER be able to undo that decision. Even if you want to get past it, there may be thousands of thousands of copies of the pictures floating around the internet or in print. You will not be able to "undo" that decision.

None of us will be able to "undo" our mistakes, but we are (hopefully) fortunate enough to not have to worry about that mistake showing up over and over and over again, whether directly in our lives, or indirectly through the lives of others (by others seeing the pictures - others who may know you now or in 10 years).

The point of my ramblings is this: Even though you think it's a good idea now, I promise you that you will have a different perspective in 1, 2, 3, 5, or 10 years from now. And then what will you do? How will you feel then? Please consider these things before you make a decision that you may one day regret.

bkg