I think I'm going to quit

[Jeremy1979]

I have been drinking alcohol since around the age of 18 and am 32 now. I don't feel like I get the same "thrill" out of drinking that I once did. I would also say that almost every mistake I've made was due to being under the influence of alcohol. I've only noticed recently however, that I physically do not feel well the next day after drinking. Not a hangover, but a feeling of anxiety and regret. I was feeling very full of the Spirit earlier this week (I only drink on the weekends), but as soon as Saturday morning came after drinking Friday night, that feeling had vanished. This has been happening almost everytime now the following morning. I don't drink and drive EVER and I always am at home when I drink, but I feel like that chapter in my life needs to come to an end. I felt far better being physically sober and drunk on the Spirit than physically drunk and my soul weeping. I'm not sure how easy this is going to be, but I guess I'll soon find out. I'll be going on vacation around the 17th and will be surrounded by family and friends I haven't seen in a very long time. I'm sure I will be drinking there, but I want to limit myself with the idea that this will be one of the last social gatherings where I will partake in alcohol. And no I won't go overboard with that thought in my mind either.

 

[madison1101]

If you want to stop drinking, I suggest you attend Alcoholics Anonymous, and learn how to stop drinking altogether. AA is a 12 step recovery program that gives me freedom from ever drinking again, along with the fellowship of others who have also chosen to live a sober life.

To find meetings, check out the AA website at www.aa.org

Trish

 

[oi_antz]

I found that nothing worked for me until Jesus put His foot down and then I was forced to stop. Now I'm terrified that if I start again it will be to my demise. Well a flatmate offered me a beer a few weeks ago and I took one sip and it was disgusting, I couldn't drink it. I think you should pray for God's help because it certainly works

 

[Chaplain David]

I have been drinking alcohol since around the age of 18 and am 32 now. I don't feel like I get the same "thrill" out of drinking that I once did. I would also say that almost every mistake I've made was due to being under the influence of alcohol. I've only noticed recently however, that I physically do not feel well the next day after drinking. Not a hangover, but a feeling of anxiety and regret. I was feeling very full of the Spirit earlier this week (I only drink on the weekends), but as soon as Saturday morning came after drinking Friday night, that feeling had vanished. This has been happening almost everytime now the following morning. I don't drink and drive EVER and I always am at home when I drink, but I feel like that chapter in my life needs to come to an end. I felt far better being physically sober and drunk on the Spirit than physically drunk and my soul weeping. I'm not sure how easy this is going to be, but I guess I'll soon find out. I'll be going on vacation around the 17th and will be surrounded by family and friends I haven't seen in a very long time. I'm sure I will be drinking there, but I want to limit myself with the idea that this will be one of the last social gatherings where I will partake in alcohol. And no I won't go overboard with that thought in my mind either.

I'm glad you're thinking about quitting. That is one step in the process of actually quitting but you're heading in the right direction. I absolutely echo folks recommendations for Alcoholics Anonymous. I got sober in AA. It took me a while but it finally worked for me when I decided to work it.
God bless you and your sobriety.

Have you checked out any substance abuse counselors or programs? Sometimes they are helpful and many times needed to help get someone back on the right path. It was a long time ago but I went through treatment quite a few times. But it takes what it takes. The main thing is you're taking action.

I am a substance abuse counselor and have been for a while. If you ever want to pm privately about AA or recovery please feel free. That goes for everyone here. I'm also a member of Al Anon.

 

[Biker Angel]

I have been drinking alcohol since around the age of 18 and am 32 now. I don't feel like I get the same "thrill" out of drinking that I once did. I would also say that almost every mistake I've made was due to being under the influence of alcohol. I've only noticed recently however, that I physically do not feel well the next day after drinking. Not a hangover, but a feeling of anxiety and regret. I was feeling very full of the Spirit earlier this week (I only drink on the weekends), but as soon as Saturday morning came after drinking Friday night, that feeling had vanished. This has been happening almost everytime now the following morning. I don't drink and drive EVER and I always am at home when I drink, but I feel like that chapter in my life needs to come to an end. I felt far better being physically sober and drunk on the Spirit than physically drunk and my soul weeping. I'm not sure how easy this is going to be, but I guess I'll soon find out. I'll be going on vacation around the 17th and will be surrounded by family and friends I haven't seen in a very long time. I'm sure I will be drinking there, but I want to limit myself with the idea that this will be one of the last social gatherings where I will partake in alcohol. And no I won't go overboard with that thought in my mind either.

I thought about quitting drinking for years before I actually quit. I now have three years sober and I feel a lot lot better. If I can do it then you can do it to my friend. Have a great vacation.

 

[suzybeezy]

I agree that you need to pray and ask for God's help, as taking on the task of quitting drinking can be a difficult one. Its difficult because the enemy knows its a sure way to mess with your life and he's not gonna want to give that up. My sister was a heavy drinker and it cost her plenty, but the Lord delivered her from it and she is now sober and walkin' upright with the Lord. I can be done, but I do feel it must be done with the Lord helping you. I'd also suggest since you've had this feeling that you should try to start putting it into practice during your upcoming vacation, no better time than the present. It will be tough but having family around to support you and occupy you will help.