I think I'm broken ...

[_sunshinegirl]

I've lost feelings.
I've been dating (someone) for about two months ..
Half long distance, but I don't feel anything anymore.
The closer it seems I move to God the less I want to make - out and stuff.
I don't nessecarily 'miss' him.
Is this normal?
Am I just counteracting his 'mushie' feelings?
I trust the Lord this is right, I mean I have no complaints.
Just I think 'he' might think that 'he' isn't adding up because I have lost interest in the physical.
???!???!??!??

 

[loved]

Because you're moving closer to God, you're becoming more Christ like, hence the not wanting to make out and stuff, in other words you're getting purer.

Thats my thoughts anyway, you're putting God first which is completly right so just trust God to do the rest in your relationship with this guy.

Rely on HIM.

God Bless x

 

[_sunshinegirl]

(thank you)

i would like God to be more of a center of our relantionship .. not just our individual lifes.

any recommendations of how to do that?

 

[skinnybrad]

its hard but sit down with "James" (made up a name for him as i dont know it) and say "James i really like you and think we need to make the centre of our relationship God not ourselves so can we sit down and pray about it"

 

[leoji]

Your not Broken! just listen to your heart, Put God first and he will take care of the rest.

 

[loved]

is he a christian?

 

[Iggster]

(thank you)

i would like God to be more of a center of our relantionship .. not just our individual lifes.

any recommendations of how to do that?

Fluffstah, and I, have never hesitated praying together when we have troubles. Sometimes, we send our prayers thru PM or snail mail.....It has helped us focus our relationship towards a Christ-centered relationship. She'll even send me verses when I'm not having such a great day to remind me that the Lord is there for me.

If it's something that bothers you about him, then I'd suggest sitting down like adults and talk about your concerns. If he can't keep an open mind and his heart is elsewhere, then I think you pretty much know what to do. I would want someone that encourages me in my walk with Christ; not someone who'll be a hindrance.

Just my .02 cents......

 

[_sunshinegirl]

Yes he is.
_
(thank you) for all those great advice(s)

 

[invisiblebabe]

Maybe God wants you to save making out and such for marriage. When you're married, I'm sure you'll want to, as it is part of the way God designed things... read Song of Songs.

For now though... it comes down to this: do you feel a mental and emotional connection with him, as well as a spiritual connection? Are you guys compatible? If so, I wouldn't worry too much about the physical.... it'll grow in time.

 

[loved]

I agree with invisiblebabe..............pray about what God wants you to save for marriage, people have different convictions.

I have no problem with kissing, some people do.Everyone's different.

 

[jjulie26]

I agree with invisiblebabe..............pray about what God wants you to save for marriage, people have different convictions.

I have no problem with kissing, some people do.Everyone's different.

I also agree with invisablebabe. All that stuff is for marriage and god is just showing you that threw abstenance. I m sure it will come back, and trust god to show you if that person is the one (ask and you shall recieve)

And yes not everyone is into kissing