I regret not telling him how i feel

[biffy]

6 months ago i had a dream (in my sleep) i got married to one of my oldest and dearest friends.....I started hanging out with him heaps more after that and we get along "like a house on fire".....We were meant to catch up over Christmas and....when i went to see him...Christmas morning...i saw his sister first and she said wow guess what he's started seeing this girl and she's really nice...I said oh...great. I'm hurting because I regret not telling him how I feel...

 

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

Sorry about how you are feeling. However, dreams aren't always of God. A lot of dreams come because of our own thoughts, things that occur, etc. I would have to say that your dream is probably not a sign of the future, and that you shouldn't worry about it. If he is going out with some other girl, that is ok. He doesn't know about your dream, and even if you had told him, he might not have just started going out with you. If things are meant to be between you too then God will work it all out; you don't have to worry about it.

 

[mina]

I'm so sorry. I hate when things like this happen, especailly between friends. It does hurt.

 

[Evie1980]

Life is never what you expect it be - you may never marry the man you think you will, you may never say the things that you should say, you may never end up in the place that you thought you would but that doesn't really matter because God is in control and if it were His will then it would have happened. Sometimes we narrow our own lives to what we think God wants in our lives. This is dangerous because only God can see the bigger picture and sometimes He has totally different ideas on what is actually good for us.

It is hard when we don't say things that we think we should have. We think that if we had only said/did something the whole situation would be different but, having been a person that has said/done that cound have been left alone, it didn't turn out the way that I wanted it to - he just wasn't interested. I thought he was and so did everyone else but there you have it. Also it is important to remember that he didn't say anything either - life is a two way street when it comes to relationships. One person can not put in all the effort and expect a wonderful relationship to blossom if the other is just not interested or wanting the same level of friendship. Trust me - I have been in this situation may times and I am still learning that friendship is a wonderful yet scary proposition on all sides. In all things I have learnt to hand it over to God so He can give me what He wants in my life because I know He only gives me is which is best for me though it may not seem so at the time. God bless, Evie

 

[Moluku]

I know the feeling of not telling a person how you truly feel, and also the reverse side of this as well. Will be praying for you and that the Lord helps you to carry the pain sweetie. Just keep in the back of your mind that the Lord has someone for you. That it may in the end be this friend, and that it could be someone else along the way. Have faith and patience in the Lord. You're not alone in how you feel!

 

[Tink]

Biffy,

Set your eyes upon the highest goal, that you might obtain the prize. (Philippians 3:13-15) If something is in the will of God, it will happen. I know that it hurts, and I'm sorry that it does so. I encourage you to bury yourself in the Word of God right now. So many times, we get caught up in boys and friends and all the things around us, that we forget to worship the One who made us with our lives. He will never leave you, nor will He forsake you. Remember that, and pray, sister.

In His love,
Tink

 

[~HopeFloats~]

We all have a lifetime of regrets but When it is meant to be, it is menat to be..

Do not beat yourself up about it, In time all will be right.