i recently had a miscarriage

[Viktoriya]

My husband and I were trying to get pregnant and it took us one month to succeed. I took a home pregnancy test on March 6th, 2008 and it was positive. We got so excited. So much emotions went through me. I was so happy.
We told our family and friends that we are pregnant and they were all so excited for us.Especially parents, since they will have another grand child. I prayed about the baby, so it will be born, be healthy, grow up to be a true Christian.
The whole time I felt very different. I was very bloated and had a disgusting feeling but I didn't tell anyone except my husband. I sensed something was wrong.
On March 10th at night I went to the bathroom and noticed there was a little bit of blood. I got so scared.
We went to ER and they told me I had a very early miscarriage. It was very very hard to hear the doctor say that. I started to cry and my husband said: "If it happened, than it was supposed to happen."
Telling everyone that I miscarried was hard too. But everyone was so nice and they helped me a lot, calmed me down. Especially my husband, he is a treasure. I know that he is devastated but he is trying very hard to help me and he did. My love for him grows more and more.
The thing that really shocked me was that this whole thing brought me closer to God. I thought I will be so angry and turn away from God.
But I know there is a reason for this. I know one day I will find out what it is.
God gives, and God might take it away.

Right now I am reading Job. God gave him great children and wealth and he was happy and than he took everything away from him and he still had faith in God. And his faith grew more.
For all the women out there who had a miscarriage, trust God. He knows whats best for you. One day we will figure out the reason of our suffering.

 

[Restoredsoul]

Thank you for being so open and sharing about your experiences. I am sorry for the pain but it is so amazing how God can draw us to him in these times and how our faith can grow.

You have a really healthy attitude and your faith is inspirational.
You know what, i'm going through a hard time but my faith has grown - and i feel so alone with those feelings - so thank you for sharing this - i really needed to read it tonight.


Rs xxx

 

[FaithfulWife]

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[Taylor43]

Welcome to the forum, so sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping you in my prayers