I really dont like my step father

[HisW0rd]

My son is two years and two months. Every time my son throws a temper tantrum, I do not care, I simply walk away or redirect his attention to something else. I know that since he cannot fully talk, that is just his way of expressing his anger or when he is hungry, he is frustrated and for some reason thinks I won't feed him. (which is weird) or when he is sleepy, he is cranky, and etc.

BUT my step father is sooooooooooo convinced that since he has temper tantrums and if I don't throw him in time out, he will grow up beating up people, beating me up, and intimidating everyone around him? WHAT IS HE TALKING ABOUT!?

So now I have to hear this ignorant man say my son is going to grow up and be a monster because of his temper tantrums. I do not care what anyone say, you are speaking negatively over my child future and that is NOT A BLESSING BUT A CURSE!

I hate being here and I really want to leave. I dont get mad at my son, yell at him, and throw him in time out because I took away something he couldn't play with. He is a child, children are overly dramatic, by the time 60 seconds are up, he stops crying and finds something else to do. So you want to throw him in time out because MY SON DIDNT KNOW HE COULDN'T PLAY WITH THIS STUPID STICK, and you put him in time out because you take it away from him and he got upset and started to throw a temper tantrum!


My step father say how he is so strong, so smart, and such a good little boy but when he throws a tantrum, he is going to grow up being everyone up!

 

[FlowerGirl18]

Hun, I've never experienced that myself as I am not a mother yet, but I can imagine just how much it hurts a mother's heart when something like this is being said about her child. It was also a revelation to me. I've been bullied many times in my life, and I just thought God did not care much. But now, seeing how much it hurts you when someone curses your son, it makes me realize just how much it hurts my Heavenly Father when someone curses me!
So... thank you.
I also want you to know that I am blessing your child at this very moment in the name of Jesus. I know he is a great blessing and a gift from Heaven; and I know he will grow up to be a wonderful Godly man who is both blessed and a blessing to others. Hang in there.
And join me in prayer if you want.

Dear Heavenly Father, I thank you so much for blessing our sister in Christ with such an amazing blessing - her son. I know he was your gift to her, directly from your heart, from your loving mercy. I know that your loving grace, kindness and blessings are on him and his life. So right this moment, in Jesus' name, I break the chains of every curse that may have been spoken against him. I proclaim blessings into his life - blessings, not the curses. I proclaim peace, joy, love, gentleness, kindness, goodness, perseverance, faithfulness and self control into his life, as the gifts of your Holy Spirit that I know you have given him plentifully since the day he was born. He will be the head and not the tail. I ask you to grant strength and perseverance to his mother, so that she would stand firm against any trials and tribulations, and so that she might be ready to lay down her life for her son any time. I ask you to give her strength to bless her son and even those who do wrong to her. Please let her just seek Your face above everything else, and all other things will just fall into place. I ask your Holy Spirit to come down and rest on her and her son. In Jesus name, Amen.

 

[HisW0rd]

Thank you, I literally cried because when my step father is saying, it makes me feel like he is saying he is going to be like his daddy who hurt me. That is why my son is not around his father, to not pick up his behavior, now I believe the enemy is using my step father to speak negatively in his life and I am not going to have it

 

[FlowerGirl18]

Exactly, it is not from God but from the enemy. The devil is a liar, remember? Nothing brings him more happiness that speaking lies into somebody's life and discouraging those who belong to God. You are a wonderful person and God delights in you greatly, as well as in your son. He gave you your child as a blessing, and he does not want you to believe those lies your step father is saying. Your son will never be like his dad, because he is being raised by a great Godly mother. Stay strong in Christ! He adores you and rejoices over you with singing. Your perseverance makes his heart so joyful, I can't even describe it. If you ever need someone to talk to or pray with, please know I am always here for you.

 

[LoricaLady]

My son is two years and two months. Every time my son throws a temper tantrum, I do not care, I simply walk away or redirect his attention to something else. I know that since he cannot fully talk, that is just his way of expressing his anger or when he is hungry, he is frustrated and for some reason thinks I won't feed him. (which is weird) or when he is sleepy, he is cranky, and etc.

BUT my step father is sooooooooooo convinced that since he has temper tantrums and if I don't throw him in time out, he will grow up beating up people, beating me up, and intimidating everyone around him? WHAT IS HE TALKING ABOUT!?

So now I have to hear this ignorant man say my son is going to grow up and be a monster because of his temper tantrums. I do not care what anyone say, you are speaking negatively over my child future and that is NOT A BLESSING BUT A CURSE!

I hate being here and I really want to leave. I dont get mad at my son, yell at him, and throw him in time out because I took away something he couldn't play with. He is a child, children are overly dramatic, by the time 60 seconds are up, he stops crying and finds something else to do. So you want to throw him in time out because MY SON DIDNT KNOW HE COULDN'T PLAY WITH THIS STUPID STICK, and you put him in time out because you take it away from him and he got upset and started to throw a temper tantrum!


My step father say how he is so strong, so smart, and such a good little boy but when he throws a tantrum, he is going to grow up being everyone up! [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]RIGGRIN FRECK!

It is hard not to be upset when someone implies something negative about our children and/or when they interfere.

Praying you will be given patience, "thick skin", and tact in dealing with your step father.

 

[HisW0rd]

Its not about thick skin, its about showing my son and I respect. I dont care what he thinks, don't speak cursings over my son

 

[Linus]

Praying for you, your son and your step father in the name of Jesus Christ. Thank You Lord!

 

[servant of Merciful Love]

May God bless you and your son in His merciful Love.

 

[SplendidTree]

Praying!