For those who would not contemplate leaving their children to go away on holiday, I would say that you do need time away from the kids. When children come along, as much as you love them, they do make tremendous demands on a marriage and you need to have time for yourselves. Too many women, in particular, have devoted themselves 100% to their children until they are adults, then suddenly the woman wakes up one day and discovers the chicks have fled the nest, and she is left with her husband who is a bit of a stranger. Some marriages can fall apart at this stage because there is nothing to keep them together. If you have a willing, trusted person who is happy to look after your children from time to time, jump at the chance, I did, and my kids were none the worse, in fact they were less clingy than those of some of my friends, they didn't suffer from home sickness when as older children they went away on school trips abroad. In my opinion time away from the children is good for us, and good for them.