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I need some advice

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Okay so here's my problem... I feel like anything I do makes people around me angry. Whether it be my opinion or something I do for someone else. What should I do? It has just been really bothering me for years now. Thanks and God bless
 
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Okay so here's my problem... I feel like anything I do makes people around me angry. Whether it be my opinion or something I do for someone else. What should I do? It has just been really bothering me for years now. Thanks and God bless

I know how you feel, but as Girder of Lions said, please elaborate? What you say exactly matters in this situation.
 
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Well, any time I say something, people just get mad. Like for instance, when my phone's software crashed, I told my friends, and they started bragging about how they were getting new phones. I calmly told them that they were lucky, and that at the same time I was happy for them, I was frustrated at my situation, and they got really upset with me. Things similar like that happen to me just about every day.
 
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Well, any time I say something, people just get mad. Like for instance, when my phone's software crashed, I told my friends, and they started bragging about how they were getting new phones. I calmly told them that they were lucky, and that at the same time I was happy for them, I was frustrated at my situation, and they got really upset with me. Things similar like that happen to me just about every day.

Hmm. I think Girder's right. Ya know what though, if it's this kinda thing all the time, than the other person/people need to change. Nothing wrong with you :)
 
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