Okay here is the situation.
See, to make a long story short, about a year ago I had gotten into a fight with 3 of my friends over evolution. We have not spoken to each other since.
Now back then, they were for evolution, I was not, this caused arguments because they were not liking that my Christians ways did not agree with what they believed in. Back then I was angry, and so were they. So we stopped being friends.
This school year started in September. Over the summer break, I began to think about them. I started to miss hanging out with them. I realized that God was teaching me something with this fight. He was trying to tell me that even though their views did not agree with mine, I could still be calm and cool because he would take care of it. In other words, I learned from this that I can't force people to believe in the same things that I believe in. But what I can do is pray for them that God will find them and take care of them. I know he will someday, I just have to wait.
After I realized all this, I tried to go apologize to them, but they would not speak to me. They turned me away, and my heart was torn.
When September of this school year rolled around, I began to see them again. I passed them in the hallways, and I had oppertunities to talk to them again. I figured that by now they had forgotten about the whole thing. Even if they had not, it was over a year ago! I figured it was high time we put it behind us. It was just a stupid argument.
Boy was I wrong.
I tried talking to them a little bit, but they still would not talk to me!
So I gave up. I figured they didn't want to be friends with me anymore, so I gave up.
Well apparently God did not want me to. Because last month I had been having dreams about them in my sleep. It is still going on to this day! And the dreams are becoming more feaquent then before. My dreams are always about all the good times we have spent together when we were friends. Now I can't stop thinking about them. And everytime I see them in the hallways, I want to just cry.
I talked to my best friend at school about it, and she told me that I need to talk to them. She said I need to work up some guts and go talk to them. This might stop the dreams. The thing is, I'm afriad they won't listen to me like they did before. I'm afriad they'll just pull me away from them again. I'm really scared.
I don't know what to do. Should I talk to them? How? What should I say?
I just really need some good advice. And prayer.
![sigh :sigh: :sigh:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/old/sigh.gif)
See, to make a long story short, about a year ago I had gotten into a fight with 3 of my friends over evolution. We have not spoken to each other since.
Now back then, they were for evolution, I was not, this caused arguments because they were not liking that my Christians ways did not agree with what they believed in. Back then I was angry, and so were they. So we stopped being friends.
This school year started in September. Over the summer break, I began to think about them. I started to miss hanging out with them. I realized that God was teaching me something with this fight. He was trying to tell me that even though their views did not agree with mine, I could still be calm and cool because he would take care of it. In other words, I learned from this that I can't force people to believe in the same things that I believe in. But what I can do is pray for them that God will find them and take care of them. I know he will someday, I just have to wait.
After I realized all this, I tried to go apologize to them, but they would not speak to me. They turned me away, and my heart was torn.
When September of this school year rolled around, I began to see them again. I passed them in the hallways, and I had oppertunities to talk to them again. I figured that by now they had forgotten about the whole thing. Even if they had not, it was over a year ago! I figured it was high time we put it behind us. It was just a stupid argument.
Boy was I wrong.
I tried talking to them a little bit, but they still would not talk to me!
So I gave up. I figured they didn't want to be friends with me anymore, so I gave up.
Well apparently God did not want me to. Because last month I had been having dreams about them in my sleep. It is still going on to this day! And the dreams are becoming more feaquent then before. My dreams are always about all the good times we have spent together when we were friends. Now I can't stop thinking about them. And everytime I see them in the hallways, I want to just cry.
I talked to my best friend at school about it, and she told me that I need to talk to them. She said I need to work up some guts and go talk to them. This might stop the dreams. The thing is, I'm afriad they won't listen to me like they did before. I'm afriad they'll just pull me away from them again. I'm really scared.
I don't know what to do. Should I talk to them? How? What should I say?
I just really need some good advice. And prayer.
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