I am having a very difficult time at home. I am a verbally abusive relationship with my parents. I have the most amazing boyfriend and he is a strong Christian. We are thinking of getting an appartment together. But sleeping in 2 different rooms. Any advice?
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I need some advice.
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If you can pull off living with yer boyfriend without causing yourself or others any problems I say you defaintly go for it. Just make sure you plan it out well and don't do it in the spur of the moment because you are stressed.
You should prolly share a room to save money, but I'm sure that poses certain challanges. Even so, if you love him, and he loves you, it shouldn't be a big deal, and I'm praying for you.
You should prolly share a room to save money, but I'm sure that poses certain challanges. Even so, if you love him, and he loves you, it shouldn't be a big deal, and I'm praying for you.
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If together you can afford to move in together, then together you can afford to move you out on your own.
But before you look into that, ask your pastor if he knows of a person in family or church that might be very happy to have a tenant in a spare bedroom or whatever. There are many adults who would welcome such a situation and this spares you and your boyfriend from going where you don't want to go.
But before you look into that, ask your pastor if he knows of a person in family or church that might be very happy to have a tenant in a spare bedroom or whatever. There are many adults who would welcome such a situation and this spares you and your boyfriend from going where you don't want to go.
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Praying that God will grant you wisdom, discernment and help you to make the right choices regarding this move, In Jesus Name, Amen
You say that you plan on having separate rooms, but are you going to be strong enough to resist temptation? I'm advising this so you won't end up with more problems then you started with. May God guide you and direct you and help you to act wisely on this one.
You say that you plan on having separate rooms, but are you going to be strong enough to resist temptation? I'm advising this so you won't end up with more problems then you started with. May God guide you and direct you and help you to act wisely on this one.
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My advise would be to keep praying both for your abusive parents and for yourself to be healed and to follow your heart. It is a blessing that you are falling in love with a strong Christian boyfriend and it seems you are going to be free soon. You are an adult and can make your own choices to create the life you want and in the way you believe is right.
The transition to living away might be tricky because of your parents, so maybe you will need more time until they get used to the idea or you leaving / and moving with someone else.
Have they met your boyfriend? Do they get along?
The transition to living away might be tricky because of your parents, so maybe you will need more time until they get used to the idea or you leaving / and moving with someone else.
Have they met your boyfriend? Do they get along?
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