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I met someone...

Peculiarone

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I didn't want to say but I just wanted to tell someone.

He is a slender dark skin fellow, look almost like Usher. He goes to church and believes in Jesus. He has one child though that's 4 years old. He calls me in the morning at 6:35am right before I go to school and even on weekends at 8am. He sends me one text a day just saying this.."what's up babes?"

He is interested in a committed relationship and is willing to wait till marriage before you know who..;) He is willing to wait until I am finished with my degree too before considering kids. Hmmmm this must be some dream.

A good man. I just hope that the way he is now that he is truly for real and its not a show yoou know. I am very cautious an dtaking this slow. I have one date with him on April 1. I'm excited.
 

BeautyForAshes

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Peculiarone...

Sounds good to me. As others have stated, be sure to seek God in EVERYTHING that goes on between the both of you.

I pray that the Father in heaven directs both yours and his steps regarding this budding relationship. In Jesus name.....Amen
 
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lady_of_god

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Peculiarone said:
I just hope that the way he is now that he is truly for real and its not a show yoou know. I am very cautious an dtaking this slow. I have one date with him on April 1. I'm excited.

Sounds wonderful and i'm very happy for you :) just pray and ask the Lord if its right, ask Him if this guy is the one. When it comes to these sorts of things you should always run it pass with our Father in Heaven, thats the best way to know;)

-Lady :holy:
 
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