so considering the fact that doing it here meens I’m talking to other believers that are in marriages etc this would be the best place to do it and I feel awkward doing this so I might misspell things etc but here we go there is a girl not in the same class (I’m homeschooled) she’s not I have her number I know her dad me and him play Xbox and my parents know him well so that’s nice I know there family well and I have feelings for her you could say I’m NOT at an age at the moment to go on a date etc and neither is she we’re both around same age we both enjoy football baseball etc i remember at around age 10 she asked me if I liked her (not knowing that I did truly have feelings for her) how do I approach this as I get older I just honestly don’t know I myself am socially awkward so that dosent help I stutter a lot to I’ve asked god to help me but I thought I would come here to
You didn't say much about how old you are, or where you are in life today. So I'm going to cover things that might not apply to you. First I'm assuming you wish to be married.... NOW... as now. If you are not interested in being married, you have no business asking someone out on a date. When you are ready to marry, then you date.
What have you done to deal with your stuttering? Many famous actors stuttered, and they got help to fix it. Asking G-d is great. Now put some action to your request. Get some help to end your stuttering.
I'm assuming that you have a job, and that you spend your time doing something other than XBox. If not, you need to fix that, and start doing something more productive than just playing games.
I am of the opinion that if you do not have a full time, steady employment, working there for at least a year, or if you just got this job, have worked at a prior job for at least a year.... then you shouldn't be dating. Dating is for marriage, and thus taking the responsibility, duty, and honor of marriage. In order for you to fulfill you duty as a married man, you must be a responsible man that works for a living.
Beyond that, ask her out to a football game. You say she likes football... buy some tickets, and ask her to go with you to a game. If she says no, ask someone else.
What most women don't like is "Uh um.... er... do you want to go somewhere sometime?"
What many women do like "Hey I have tickets to the game on Friday. Would you like to go with me? I'll pick you up around 5, and we'll get something to eat before the game"
And you pay for it. With your money, that you earned.
Do not go on a date with your parents money, ever.
If you are not old enough to get married, you are not old enough to date. Do not date if you are not old enough to get married, OR if you do not intend to get married. Dating isn't a game, and playing around can break your heart, and her heart. The pagans run around damaging each other, and then they can't hardly trust anyone because their hearts have been broken 10 times before they even get out of high school.
If you are not serious, then don't date. Dating is for men, who want a real relationship with a woman.
That's my advice, and I wish you the best.
