i just want someone to talk with

[hopefulman]

Introducing your girlfriend is a huge step I guess. Perhaps you don't talk much to your family about things? I never did when I lived at home, they were always busy and I was very quiet anyway. But when you gradually open up and talk about different things it helps them get to know you better so when they hear rumours they know that its a lie because they actually know you! If you don't talk to them they really wont know you very well. I am only wondering if this may be a reason for how you feel, but it may not be the case with you.

Sorry to hear about your troubles, you are in my prayers every day. I pray things get better and that the Lord's will be done in your life.

actually you are right. i rarely talk and if some people would insult me in my face i guess i will not talk back. i'll just look into their your eyes. but that very moment i have tons of things going on in my mind. But if they get physical, that is a different story. Anyway i have come to realize that i should not work hard to get people's respect or get their approval if they just insult me. honestly i'm getting tired of this stuff.

 

[LottyH]

actually you are right. i rarely talk and if some people would insult me in my face i guess i will not talk back. i'll just look into their your eyes. but that very moment i have tons of things going on in my mind. But if they get physical, that is a different story. Anyway i have come to realize that i should not work hard to get people's respect or get their approval if they just insult me. honestly i'm getting tired of this stuff.

You are so right about that - its impossible get everyone's approval anyway. I found a lot of freedom when I gave up caring about others opinions of me (and that included my own opinion of myself as that can change every day!) and just tried to focus on being the type of character that God would approve of. I've never completely stopped caring about what others think but it just doesn't seem to have a hold on me like it used to.

 

[LottyH]

Hey Hopefulman, hows things going?

 

[hesavedme94]

im always here if you wanna talk =)

 

[hopefulman]

Hey Hopefulman, hows things going?

heello ....everything is going smoothly. i'm busy with my ojt and i kinda want to rest. i miss the old days when i can stay up late and wake up 10am in the morning.......but i like being busy because i cant think of my problems. its like when you lie down in bed, you fall asleep in less than a minute. sorry if i cant reply fast. i will continues to send you PM's even if i cant reply here fast.

 

[takemeasIam1925]

i was really in search for a christian forum to find people to talk with. i'm male 23 and i'm still studying. i feel sad and lonely. i got problems that are too shallow for other people but are great burden to me. yes yes. a lot of people quote the sweet bible verse "cast your burdens upon me and i will give you rest." but i really cant get it.i dont know how it works.. well dying came across my mind several times. yes, its an option but the last one i think. feel free to insult me in any possible way for having a mindset like this. maybe it will knock some sense into my head. i really am used to people stabbing and insulting me behind my back. sometimes they mock me or shout things at me when i pass by or then they pass by me. all i want is to go in some peaceful place and live there. this place is like hell for me and its killing me slowly. i enjoy being alone most of the time. since i was a kid i have few friends. i really choose my friends. end times and end of the world makes me happy and i really wish it will be soon. this makes me go on and survive my day to day struggles. i really wish my life will change in a good way.

I won't insult you, not at all. I'm truly sorry you are having these kinds of struggles. I think if everyone was honest they would admit at some time in their life they to have had those same feelings or emotion. I don't want to throw scripture at you but please know I will be praying for you.

 

[hopefulman]

hello. . im back after a few days of being unable to be online. anyway this month is a terrible one. a lot happened. why is it always me? can i just have a happy and prosperous life. . with peace of mind.. .

 

[LottyH]

hello. . im back after a few days of being unable to be online. anyway this month is a terrible one. a lot happened. why is it always me? can i just have a happy and prosperous life. . with peace of mind.. .

Oh no, sorry to hear this. What's been happening?