I just keep pouring everything into him...

[caresforthebirds]

This year will be our 5th anniversary... But lately I'm feeling unloved by him because I caught him sending love letters to a woman in another state and he was trying to convince me she was an "old friend" and wanted me to drive to go meet her.

On top of that he's getting angry at me a lot and wanting to argue all the time. We were even trying to attend marriage classes for awhile.

We moved in again with one of my uncles who's trying to tell me he seems to care only about himself... What can I do?

 

[turkle]

Looking back on some of your older posts, I'm befuddled as to why you are with this man. He is sending love letters to a woman and wants you to go meet her? He makes awful sexual jokes to a 17 year old boy in your home and touches him inappropriately? That's just what's in the first few posts.

Personally, I would not subject myself to this kind of behavior. What was he like when you married him? What was it about him that made you want to marry him? I'm terribly confused.

 

[caresforthebirds]

Looking back on some of your older posts, I'm befuddled as to why you are with this man. He is sending love letters to a woman and wants you to go meet her? He makes awful sexual jokes to a 17 year old boy in your home and touches him inappropriately? That's just what's in the first few posts.

Personally, I would not subject myself to this kind of behavior. What was he like when you married him? What was it about him that made you want to marry him? I'm terribly confused.

I keep thinking I can get it to work but he's depressing me but if I tell him to leave he begs and begs and begs...

 

[caresforthebirds]

He also keeps saying I'm miss understanding him, for example he was just joking with the boy or even it's "normal" in the culture he's from to say things like "we'll be together soon, my sweet destiny" to an "old friend" like I'm stupid...