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I have been working at this job for six months and have been doing it very well. I was reading meters for a city in Southern California. I moved all the way across the United States to be with my wife Grace.
Yesterday, my supervisor's supervisor, brought me into his office and fired me. My supervisor disappeared and would not come in the meeting.
He said, "you're not meeting up to expectations."
I said, "What expectations are you talking about?"
He never elaborated. All he said was that if I think about it, it would come to me.
I asked him again, to which he replied the same thing.
Basically, from the first day I worked there, my supervisor has been neutral/negative to me, and turned around every good thing I did into something bad because she does not like me.
I practically begged for my job yesterday. I said, "I'm not going to cry, but I just got married, I just got an apartment, and I just bought a new car. Please let me keep this job." I reminded them of everything I did for them, but still they would not listen.
The supervisor's supervisor had written on the document of termination, "I regret having to take this action." So he knew it was complete b---s---. The lady who was supervising me sabotaged me and lied about me because she does not like me.
So she got what she wanted.
And now I'm fired.
And not only did they do this -- they marked me down as ineligible for rehire. So, not only can I not get a job again with the city of Tustin, when I put the City of Tustin down on a resume, and the prospective employer calls for a reference and says "would you hire him again", they're going to say "no". It wasn't enough for them to take my job from me. They put me down as ineligible for rehire.
I gave them everything. I did everything they ever asked me.
I was dang good at this job. I trained 10 or 12 people in this same job in North Carolina. I know what I'm doing.
I just don't know what to do now.
I was making 22.48 an hour - 46,800 annually.
And I am living in California. I was making it fine with the wage I had.
And now I don't have this job.
And the worst part is that this lady who supervised me is a Christian. She wore "Women Of Faith" sweaters to work and put Bible verses all over her cubicle.
I worked my heart out, and went above and beyond what was asked of me.
I got a lot of compliments, and there weren't mistakes behind my work.
I don't get this. I just don't know what to do now.
So sorry QC - don't know what the laws in CA are - but I would take the advice given by Balance. If you never had any consultation prior that anything was wrong that would seem to be legally binding that it was not your work ethics.
In Texas - I think for the first 6 months - they can fire without cause - maybe it is the same there - were you beyond the 6 months or right at the 6 months. The thing that would make me the most angry was that they put down would not rehire - in this economy - that is really cold.
My son in CO had the same thing happen - came in from installing a granite job and was told he did not have a job - wife and 2 five year old sons - there is nothing more shattering than to have your job pulled out from under you.
But for him it was a Blessing - he looked for work for a month - nothing - started working on custom knives which he loves to do - turns out this seems to be his favor from God - pushed him into doing what he loves and making good money at it.
You can see what he is doing Tim Lambkin Custom Knives (NOT ADVERTISING)
Just want you to see what he is doing and this has all been within a month.
I think I remember back a year or so ago - that you and Grace would be going into the ministry of some sort - if this is what you are meant to do - then this may be the opening for you.
Just pray for favor from the Lord to show you where you are suppose to be - sometimes desperation is what it takes to send us in the direction that is where you are meant to be.
Praying for you.
Maybe your supervisor did what God wanted her to do for His reasons that you now need to discover through trust and obedience.
I understand that your motive was to help me get a larger perspective.
But this is cold comfort to someone who just lost $850.00 a week take-home pay, who just got married, who has the main income in the house, who just bought a car, who has a $1300.00 a month apartment, who wants to take care of his wife and himself.
So, know I do understand you were trying to help me.
But what you said was exactly the wrong thing to say to me.
I am waiting to hear next from the people who are going to tell me
"you had sin in the camp"
"you lacked faith, therefore God took your job"
"you didn't put enough in the offering plate"
"you smote the rock when God told you to speak to the rock"
What really gets me hot is when people try to put some kind of spiritual twist on your pain to try to condemn you and make it out to be your fault somehow, when what really happened is simply that you were done wrong.
I gave my all to this job and put my whole heart into it.
I know that before God, I am innocent, as Daniel was.
I'm not taking blame for this.
My conscience is clear.
This sounds appalling, and I feel so sorry for you.
Surely they can't do this? Isn't there some law or something which says that they have to give reasons for sacking you? And surely they should start off by giving a warning first, maybe followed by dismissal if things don't improve? They can't just sack you because your supervisor, who you say is a Christian and therefore should know better, doesn't like you. That's unfair dismissal.
Surely there is some sort of appeal possible? Do you have unions over there?
Praying for you, and really hoping this works out and you discover the next step - whether complaint or acceptance.
OK, chalk me up to one who is wrong. I have worked in HR and hired and fired a few people. Not one single one of them thought they deserved it, which is really sad. When I lost my job, I took a look in the mirror and thought of the things I did wrong, I didn't point my finger at my boss or make excuses for it. Unless they fired everyone and dissolved the whole department, then it may not be sin, it may not be faith, but don't discount your work ethic or attitude, as that is the most common reason I had to fire people. Perhaps you are the best worker in the world, but obviously something wasn't working and you really need to figure out what that was. I have countless stories of those who didn't deserve to get fired, and countless documents to show why they did. May be different in your case, but I have never ever found a case where there was no blame on the employee.
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